Cody bought it the day before our first date.
Apparently he wasn’t getting much action with his grandmother’s old Barcaloungers.
I thought it was ugly.
It’s green.
The front pops out and it reclines.
We first held hands on it.
Our next date we had our first kiss on it.
I knew I was going to marry him while laying in his lap on it.
It’s where we first fell asleep together.
Two cats claimed it as their kingdom.
I slept through morning sickness on it.
I barfed from it.
I brought a tiny baby home to it.
That tiny baby leaked all sorts of liquids on it.
I shampooed it. A lot.
It moved across the country with us.
I’ve napped on it every Sunday.
We’ve taken turns sleeping on it, for multiple reasons.
I recovered from surgery on it.
It was the first thing we had to sit on in our new house.
It’s currently in our bedroom as laundry base camp.
Addie likes to hide behind it and scare Cody.
I still hate it.
I still think it’s ugly.
It has become worn out, parts have broken and it leaks grease on the carpet.
But I can’t ever get rid of it.
It’s our couch.
*****
If you were in Stephanie’s and my Inspirational Writing Workshop with Hallmark at Blissdom last month we issued you a challenge, to write about a couch. The full challenge is here if you want to play along (which you should) and once you do (or if you already have) link your posts up here over at Steph’s place.)








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By Adventures In Babywearing on 03.08.10 11:36 am | Permalink
Twitter: @babysteph
You can’t ever get rid of that thing! I love how you did this as a list. I didn’t even think of that.
Steph
By sam {temptingmama} on 03.08.10 11:41 am | Permalink
Twitter: @temptingmama
Isn’t it funny how the most comfortable and squishy couches are the most unappealing to look at?
I am attest to the comfy of this couch. SOOOOO nice.
What about a slip cover? That will help it live a couple more years, no? I’ve seen some for recliner couches too!
Adventures In Babywearing Reply:
March 8th, 2010 at 1:28 pm
@sam {temptingmama}, I have to agree- the one pictured in my post isn’t the one I wrote about, but we wore that thing OUT. It was hideous- I mean, white with 4 kids and 3 dogs? It was bad, ripped up, and filthy. But it was the most comfortable thing you’d ever sit in. So I freecycled it and promised the new owners it wasn’t much to look at but it was like sitting on heaven.
I miss that thing.
Steph
By Camille on 03.08.10 11:54 am | Permalink
Twitter: @archiveslives
I have never heard of a couch leaking oil before. For that reason alone, I support your decision to keep it always. The thing thinks it’s a dadgum car, for heaven’s sake!
By Casual Friday Every Day on 03.08.10 12:30 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/casualnell
I love this one so much. I agree, you cannot get rid of this. How could you?!
Nell
By lceel on 03.08.10 12:51 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @lceel
Interesting history, there. Fell asleep together, eh? Hmmmm. vveeerrryyy interestingk.
By Elizabeth Kaylene on 03.08.10 2:01 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @elizawhat
Is it comfy?
By DesignHER Momma on 03.08.10 2:10 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @designhermomma
how could I not participate? I love my junky furniture pieces.
And your sofa – it’s really been through a lot. I bet’s it tired and happy to hold laundry.
By Mary @ Holy Mackerel on 03.08.10 3:12 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @marymoo24
I can so relate to feeling that way about a piece of ugly furniture. I cried when we got rid of our first couch.
By Candace on 03.08.10 4:49 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @jondace
LIKE THIS A LOT. Just did the “exercise.” Thanks for the idea!
By corrin on 03.08.10 10:29 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @corrinrenee
Oh, I can almost feel the velour goodness!
By dusty earth mother on 03.08.10 10:41 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @dustyearthmom
Oh yeah. You gotta keep that couch. It has “inner beauty”.
By Rach on 03.08.10 11:10 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @iClippy
I really enjoyed reading this post! I can relate to it! I agree that old stuff just have something about them. You can never let go of them without somehow feeling like losing a part of yourself
I enjoyed this writing exercise!
By Chrissy Witt on 03.09.10 12:04 am | Permalink
I love this! the couch I didn’t write about was the one we used like that and it broke my heart when we let it go! It had to be broken apart to take it out of our home!
I’m so glad I followed the link to read this!
By Upstatemomof3 on 03.09.10 12:26 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Upstatemomof3
That is beautiful! Isn’t it funny how much we can hate something and still love it? I think that couch has an awful lot of character.
By Beccah on 03.09.10 12:33 am | Permalink
Twitter: @IndyBlogGirl
I love this post. So sweet.
By Domestic Extraordinaire on 03.09.10 8:42 am | Permalink
Twitter: @DExtraordinaire
I love how you wrote this out in list form, something I never thought to do.
By Lisa @ Crazy Adventures in Parenting on 03.09.10 11:41 am | Permalink
Twitter: @crazyadventures
I love the list form you used. This post is adorable (as are you). Definitely can’t get rid of it!
By Molly on 03.09.10 2:51 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @mollofamerica
This is so sweet and powerful.
The first time you fell asleep with a sweetheart is an underrated milestone.
we got rid of our first couch when my oldest son was three, and he cried for hours. So I think your instinct to hang on to all that history is a good one.
By Stephanie on 03.09.10 4:08 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @stephsday
What a couch! It’s been with you through so many life changes – good and bad and funny and sad.
Thanks for writing this beautiful post.
By Secret Agent Mama on 03.10.10 11:57 am | Permalink
Twitter: @secretagentmama
We had a couch like that, and we called it the dog couch. But, we got rid of it when we moved to GA in 2004. lol
By Tanya on 03.10.10 2:45 pm | Permalink
I think everyone has a couch that’s worn out its welcome but yet still serves a purpose. I never really put much thought into how much of our life our couch gets to experience till now. Great post.
By Jenny 867-5309 on 03.10.10 3:38 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @Jenny86753oh9
Oh, I really like how you did this. I “saw” that couch even if you wouldn’t have added a pic.
By Janel on 03.11.10 9:28 am | Permalink
Twitter: @dandeliondayz
Oh, this is so sweet – it would be hard to get rid of that couch.
By Shelly on 03.16.10 9:22 am | Permalink
Twitter: @roxanne600
So sweet! I be you will be hanging on to that couch for a while.
Happy Writing!
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