Addie will almost be six and a half.
Cody and I will have been married a decade.
It has been almost a year since I became at peace with it never happening again.
I’ve become that story I hated so much “Well I know this girl who tried for five years, she finally gave up and it happened.”
I know the physical ache that this has caused some of you to feel. Oh, how I know. And I hate that I caused it.
I’m no longer allowed to sit with the infertiles, even though I was a spokesperson and card carrying member for years. However I’m not sure I’ll ever be able to take my place on the other side either…I’m listening too closely for the shoe to drop.
Turns out that getting pregnant after so long comes with a whole new deluge of emotions. Ones I didn’t see coming. Ones even fewer people understand, let alone talk about.
Ones I’m in therapy for.
I’m done choking on all these emotions silently. Because I know if I’m choking? There’s hundreds more of you out there choking as well. I don’t want anyone to feel alone, I hate feeling alone. And if I have to be the first one to say it? Then so be it.
I am finally pregnant after almost five years of secondary infertility, and I’m scared.
I also know somewhere deep down inside there’s a reason people keep having babies and there’s a reason people get so excited at the announcement of a new pregnancy.
I’m going to have to go off that knowledge, and off your excitement until I’m there too.
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By Kristina P. on 09.14.10 12:07 am | Permalink
Casey, I am thrilled for you!!
By Kim on 09.14.10 12:09 am | Permalink
Twitter: @kimt205
I want to say yay and congrats, but I want to hug you too! Happy and excited for you for sure. : )
By heather... on 09.14.10 12:10 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mamaspohr
EAT DRY TOAST!
I am so happy.
By Shawn Plew on 09.14.10 12:10 am | Permalink
Twitter: @hoosierplew
OMG!!!!! CONGRATS! I can’t help but be excited for you, seeing what a wonderful job you’ve done with your first lil’ one through your blog and myriad photos.
By Camille on 09.14.10 12:11 am | Permalink
I am so happy for you and Cody! You will get there too. You will. Take care of yourself.
By Brittany Gibbons on 09.14.10 12:11 am | Permalink
KISSES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
By Overflowing Brain (Katie) on 09.14.10 12:11 am | Permalink
Twitter: @overflowinbrain
There are no words for how happy I am for you. None.
Just love.
By Jen on 09.14.10 12:11 am | Permalink
Twitter: @jenbshaw
I’m glad you are done with the silent part.
So so so happy for you!
By Elizabeth on 09.14.10 12:12 am | Permalink
Twitter: @hernewdeal
Congratulations! This is unbelievably wonderful news. I’m wishing you a healthy, effortless pregnancy!
By Lauren on 09.14.10 12:13 am | Permalink
Twitter: @laurenacarlton
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!
Kirsten Reply:
September 14th, 2010 at 3:07 am
@Lauren, OMG that was my first thought too LOL
By Slynnro on 09.14.10 12:13 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Slynnro
Congrats!!!!!!!
By AmyLee on 09.14.10 12:14 am | Permalink
Twitter: @amerlee
I have been hoping this for you for soooo long! Congrats!!! I will jump up and down and squeeeee for you!
By Kim ~ CraftyMamaof4 on 09.14.10 12:14 am | Permalink
Twitter: @craftymamaof4
Congratulations! I am so happy for you
By Headless Mom on 09.14.10 12:15 am | Permalink
Twitter: @HeadlessMom
Oh Casey! What fabulous news! The second just amplifies all of the love for the rest of your family. What a blessing after such a long, long road. {{BIG HUGS!!!}}
By Kel on 09.14.10 12:15 am | Permalink
Twitter: @rewritingkel
Yay and Congrats and Squee and awesome and all of that. I am so happy for you.
By frelle on 09.14.10 12:15 am | Permalink
Twitter: @frelle
congratulations caseymoosh
i love your bravery and already am looking forward to hearing your heart as you walk this path. Glad to be able to rejoice with you today! I love you!!!
By QuatroMama on 09.14.10 12:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @QuatroMama
HOLY CRAP. CASEY! HOLY CRAP.
Where’s your neck? I need to squeeze it. NOW.
By Major Bedhead on 09.14.10 12:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @MajorBedhead
Oh, frabjous day! Calloo!! Callay!!
What lovely, lovely news.
By Heather on 09.14.10 12:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @coolzebras
BIG CONGRATS! It took us more than 2 years to conceive our third child. I felt very alone and selfish for wanting a third when so many can’t have one, but the heart wants what the heart wants. Pain is pain. Secondary and tertiary infertility is still a valid pain. Others will be jealous, but you also offer some shred of hope…they won’t admit to the last part because of the jealousy. Don’t let that sway your joy in the least.
CONGRATS! CONGRATS!
By alexis on 09.14.10 12:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @alexistlesa
you know i’m happy for you. and i cannot wait for you to be happy for you. i never dealt with infertility, but have gone through depression during pregnancy, and it sucks donkey balls. here for you wheneva.
xo
By Just Shireen on 09.14.10 12:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @JustShireen
You’ve got an internet worth of people excited for you. You’ll get there when you get there.
Until then, I’ll be over here quietly excited and ready to hold back your hair if you need it.
Love you.
By samantha jo campen on 09.14.10 12:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @samanthajcampen
OH! OH MY!
CONGRATULATIONS!
How far along are you? SQUEEEE!
By MFA Mama on 09.14.10 12:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @MFAMama
Eeeeeeeee!!!!! I am SO happy for you, Casey! This made my WEEK! Yay!
By Wendy on 09.14.10 12:16 am | Permalink
Casey –
We struggled with primary AND secondary infertility. I was the same story. Eight years after my two boys of waiting, finally giving up and being okay with it. Then getting pregnant. It took me the whole pregnancy to deal with it. I was a mess. But oh how I love my boy!
Congrats –
Wendy (Cody’s cousin)
By BethanyWD on 09.14.10 12:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @bethanywd
So. Amazing! Congrats.
By Heather on 09.14.10 12:17 am | Permalink
Twitter: @JustHeather
Shut. Your. Face.
I just squealed out loud. I can’t even begin to imagine all the emotions you have been through. Wow. Just wow.
Congratulations! How long until we get to see the amazing baby photos?
By Melissa on 09.14.10 12:17 am | Permalink
Twitter: @melissalistens
Congrats! This is so incredible. Praying lots for you!
By Nanette on 09.14.10 12:17 am | Permalink
Twitter: @nanette
Congrats, mama!!! (And papa…and big sis…)
By Suebob on 09.14.10 12:17 am | Permalink
Twitter: @suebob
Oh yay, sweetie. I am so happy for your news. Now you have to quit drinking and doing all those drugs, though! (joking! Yeesh!)
By caroline on 09.14.10 12:18 am | Permalink
Twitter: @socarolinesays
so excited for you. xo
By Jodee on 09.14.10 12:19 am | Permalink
Twitter: @leprakans
Congratulations!!!! I am so happy for you!
By bobbie on 09.14.10 12:20 am | Permalink
Twitter: @clumsycrafter
I was 4 years and now we have our beautiful Ellie girl. It’s wonderful and I’m happy for you but I understand the emotions. Congrats.
By Backpacking Dad on 09.14.10 12:21 am | Permalink
Twitter: @BackpackingDad
I’m going to swear all over your blog with joy.
I just can’t contain myself. I’m going to swear and it’s going to be shocking and people will say “Casey, you should really moderate your comments” and I won’t care because I am so happy for you that the profanity just leaps out of me.
Any second now.
Here it goes.
Hot damn.
Hot damn!
Hot damn hot damn hot damn!
The world needs more exclamation marks because my brain just ate them all in its damn excitement.
Hot damn.
By Jessalee on 09.14.10 12:21 am | Permalink
Twitter: @jessalee
Oh, wow! Congratulations! Secondary infertility sucks (personal anecdotal evidence). Beating the odds? A beautiful, beautiful, BEAUTIFUL miracle.
Good luck with all that you’re going through!
By Erin on 09.14.10 12:21 am | Permalink
Twitter: @twomoreseconds
That is so exciting. I am so happy for you three!
By Debbie on 09.14.10 12:22 am | Permalink
Twitter: @i_obsess
I won’t lie. It’s really hard to hear your news.
But I am very glad for you, in a deep, not-skippy-silly-yay, just low and quiet and calm. So that in case my low, quiet, calm self will translate to your pregnancy being strong and safe and happy.
I’m really glad for you, Casey. I wish you — so so well.
By Laurie on 09.14.10 12:23 am | Permalink
Twitter: @lauriewrites
What great news. Congratulations!
By Chibi Jeebs on 09.14.10 12:23 am | Permalink
Twitter: @chibijeebs
I am BEYOND happy for you – I actually, literally squealed out loud. I don’t squeal (for real: for irony’s sake, sure). Ever.
For you? SQUEEEE! <3
By agirlandaboy on 09.14.10 12:23 am | Permalink
Twitter: @agirlandaboy
This is wonderful, wonderful, wonderful news! I hope everyone’s love and excitement for you helps push the gray clouds away at least most of the time.
By jessica on 09.14.10 12:24 am | Permalink
Twitter: @bernthis
My daughter is the result of in vitro so I sure as hell know what you are feeling. Mazel Tov
By Dawn on 09.14.10 12:24 am | Permalink
Twitter: @kaisermommy
kisses baby. xoxoxo
By TUWABVB on 09.14.10 12:25 am | Permalink
Twitter: @TUWABVB
So, so happy for you! I was hoping for this post for so long for you – congratulations! Enjoy your happiness!
By Christina on 09.14.10 12:25 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mommystory
So happy for you! Wishing you only an uneventful and standard pregnancy.
I’m here for you if you ever need anything. (Including the “IS THIS NORMAL?” questions.)
Congrats!
By Ryley on 09.14.10 12:25 am | Permalink
Twitter: @ryles
NO EFF’ING WAY!! (except I know we dont say eff’ing, but really I just mean eff’ing not the other word..oh dear.. I just made you think of the other word..)
So um.. CONGRATULATIONS!
SO happy for you guys..
By Debbie on 09.14.10 12:26 am | Permalink
Twitter: @i_obsess
That sounds so weird, what I said. I left out a word in the bumpy sentence. It was supposed to say something like “so that, just in case, it will translate.” or something. I don’t know exactly.
I am really glad for you. Heart-glad.
By Sarah on 09.14.10 12:26 am | Permalink
Twitter: @punch2
Casey, that is supremely wonderful. Being an IVF guru… I may well have been one of those people who toldjyaso in a comment, but I don’t remember. OFten I see that giving up gets people knocked up. Point is, this is great.
Re: fear during pregnancy after secondary infertility… i hear you.
http://ijustworkhere.typepad.com/i_just_work_here/2009/08/if-i-werent-so-tired-id-be-so-scared.html
the fear goes away when you’re ready to die from being pregnant GET IT OUT kill me.
can’t wait!
By Grace @ Sandier Pastures on 09.14.10 12:27 am | Permalink
Twitter: @sandierpastures
Mixed emotions! I’ve been there when a surprise pregnancy happened (after secondary infertility too)last May. Sadly mine did not have a happy ending.
BUT enough about me,
Congratulations!! So excited for you!!
By Emily on 09.14.10 12:27 am | Permalink
Twitter: @emihill
So excited for you, though I know you’re not fully there yourself yet. You can definitely live off my happiness for a while until you are. Congrats!
By heidikins on 09.14.10 12:28 am | Permalink
Twitter: @heidikins13
As soon as I saw this pic I burst out crying…I am so happy for you and your family. Congratulations!
xox
By Mrs. Cline on 09.14.10 12:28 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Nataliejanette
Oh, I am so, so happy for you! You deserve this so much!
xo.
By Cinthia on 09.14.10 12:29 am | Permalink
Twitter: @cinthiacg
I am so happy for you, congratulations!! Hang in there and God bless you and this baby.
By Sarah on 09.14.10 12:30 am | Permalink
Twitter: @punch2
guess what, that was the wrong link. whoops. anyway, the point is that i was scared every effing day… literally. but baby henry’s asleep next to me regardless. so i guess it works out. and i’m praying it does for you too, which it will.
By Liam on 09.14.10 12:31 am | Permalink
I started crying after reading this! congrats!!!
By brittany on 09.14.10 12:31 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Brittxander
Case! I am so excited for you and Addie and Cody. I am praying for y’all and the little nugget. I love you
By mommymae on 09.14.10 12:32 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mommymae
tears of happiness for you, darling.
By Rachel C on 09.14.10 12:32 am | Permalink
I got chills! I only lurk on your blog but I love every entry. I am so excited for you!!!! Congrats!
By Kelly on 09.14.10 12:33 am | Permalink
Congratulations! I am so happy for you!!
By Nanette on 09.14.10 12:35 am | Permalink
Super great!! Congrats!
By Sarah Viola on 09.14.10 12:36 am | Permalink
Twitter: @sarahviola
Casey, I am so happy for you and your family. Dude. So happy. Thank you for sharing this with us!
By Bree on 09.14.10 12:37 am | Permalink
Twitter: @bwildered07
Ohmygosh I am so happy for you! I literally burst into tears when I scrolled down to your post in my reader. Congratulations.
By Midwest Mommy on 09.14.10 12:38 am | Permalink
Twitter: @midwestmommy
Chills! Congrats! I am beyond excited for you.
By Sarah on 09.14.10 12:39 am | Permalink
Twitter: @fantasticmomma
OMG Casey, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!! I couldn’t be any happier for you.
By Maria on 09.14.10 12:40 am | Permalink
Twitter: @BOREDmommy
Congrats!!!
By Annie Y on 09.14.10 12:44 am | Permalink
Twitter: @anne54304
Congratulations!
By Deanna on 09.14.10 12:46 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Deannagarretson
This is amazing news! Not sure whether to laugh, cry tears of joy, or both…
I think both!
I will continue to keep you on my thoughts and prayers – xoxo
By Maria on 09.14.10 12:46 am | Permalink
Twitter: @maria0305
Congratulations!! Such awesome news!
By Untypically Jia on 09.14.10 12:46 am | Permalink
Twitter: @untypicallyjia
Casey my sweet, sweet friend I am so happy for you! I am literally in tears and not because of the reason you might think. Yes, I’m totally jealous, but I’ve read along with all of your posts all these years now, and I have prayed for you too. And it brings so much hope to me.
By Grumble Girl on 09.14.10 12:47 am | Permalink
Twitter: @GrumbleGirl
WOW!! Congratulations lady!! Wishing you all good things… joy!!
By Linda in Canada on 09.14.10 12:51 am | Permalink
Joy, Happiness, and Hugs to you and your family!!
By Emily on 09.14.10 12:51 am | Permalink
Twitter: @The_EmilyB
I actually gasped out loud when I read this – I’m so thrilled for you.
I’m new to your blog (you made such a great impact on me at BlogHer with that gorgeous smile and super friendly ways) but you deserve such great joy – congratulations!
By Heather McConnaughy on 09.14.10 12:54 am | Permalink
Twitter: @comfortablyme
Congratulations!!!!!
By Kelly on 09.14.10 12:57 am | Permalink
Twitter: @kolonoh
Hurray! God bless you even further!
By Kirsten (Results Not Typical Girl) on 09.14.10 1:05 am | Permalink
Twitter: @TomorrowsNurses.com
Bless the best.
Release the rest.
Hugs of Hope and Happiness!
By VDog on 09.14.10 1:06 am | Permalink
Twitter: @VDog
SO thrilled for you, baby girl. XOXO
By Abby - Bright Yellow World on 09.14.10 1:07 am | Permalink
Twitter: @abbersnail
Give yourself a few moments to adjust, and congratulations!!!
By Julia on 09.14.10 1:09 am | Permalink
Twitter: @jdlevrec
SO SO SO happy for you, Addie and Cody!! Congrats!!
By Frances on 09.14.10 1:10 am | Permalink
Twitter: @photographyby2
Congratulations!!!!
It has been long awaited and well deserved!!
By Redneck Mommy on 09.14.10 1:14 am | Permalink
Twitter: @redneckmommy
Beyond thrilled for you. You know that. Heart happy. Xoxo
By Trish on 09.14.10 1:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @momma_trish
Best news I’ve heard all night! Congratulations!! <3
By Nicole on 09.14.10 1:16 am | Permalink
I love your blog, but usually never comment. I have to tell you though, how so so happy and excited I am that you are finally pregnant! Hooray!! I was so surprised to see this post today!
By Lesley on 09.14.10 1:18 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Avalea
Didja feel that?! Kind of a thunderous bomp dee dee boh bomp? Yeah, that was my ass …. my large chunka 2nd baby real estate …. shakin for you. I.Am.Tha-Rilled.For.You!
By evonne on 09.14.10 1:20 am | Permalink
Twitter: @evonnesell
I am beyond stoked for you and your cute family. Addie is going to be a great helper.
Can’t wait to hear all about this new addition!!
Hugs, Kisses, and lots of good vibes being sent your way!
By Lynn @ Walking With Scissors on 09.14.10 1:26 am | Permalink
Twitter: @wwscissors
Wheeeee!!! Yay! I am SO excited and happy for you. Congratulations!!
By monstergirlee on 09.14.10 1:37 am | Permalink
Twitter: @monstergirlee
So excited for you! (saw this on flickr too)
By Skye on 09.14.10 1:47 am | Permalink
WOWSERS!!!!!!!
I am beyond thrilled for you!!!!!
CONGRATS!!
By Jenny, Bloggess on 09.14.10 1:57 am | Permalink
Twitter: @thebloggess
So freaking excited for you!
By erin on 09.14.10 2:00 am | Permalink
congrats!
thank goodness there’s going to be another little casey+cody running around, because lets face it, addie is disgustingly adorable.
By Manda on 09.14.10 2:05 am | Permalink
Twitter: @insidedog
Casey! I am just beyond thrilled for you! We are with you every step if the way! Congrats and big hugs!!
By lenka on 09.14.10 2:05 am | Permalink
Twitter: @LenkAland
congratulations! wishing you a happy peaceful ride through the next ten months
By Krista on 09.14.10 2:33 am | Permalink
Twitter: @marriedlife
Oh Casey!!! I am so so so happy for you!
I do know that feeling of waiting for the other shoe to drop though. After an easy first pregnancy I then had a year of unsuccessful trying complete with 2 miscarriages (the second after we’d told everyone). When I finally got pregnant again it was hard to be excited for quite awhile. I didn’t want to tell anyone or get too attached. It’s a form of self-preservation.
It’s okay to be scared. It’s okay to be worried. I know you do, but try to focus on today and not all the “what-ifs” because all the things you think will never happen, but something else probably will. You can’t prepare for everything! Only God can do that!
And I pray that you don’t get sick at all!
XOXO
By Rachel on 09.14.10 2:34 am | Permalink
Twitter: @sagessa
Oh, congratulations! I’m so happy for you.
By Camels & Chocolate on 09.14.10 2:49 am | Permalink
Twitter: @LunaticAtLarge
Whoa whoa whoa! Way to drop a bomb on us all nonchalant like that! Congrats, missy!
By Olivia Singleton on 09.14.10 2:53 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Olivia_ocd
I am too! Except not with a baby. Just with gas.
P.S.>> I can’t wait to snuggle the new baby and spend time playing rock-paper-scissors with the moosh 1.0. Unless Addie makes up the rules. Then it’s more like rock-paper-scissors-sand-and the occasional water balloon.
By Pgoodness on 09.14.10 2:57 am | Permalink
Twitter: @pgoodness
I am so excited and happy for you guys!!! Congrats.
By CharlieSue on 09.14.10 3:07 am | Permalink
Twitter: @charliesue
TOTAL lurker, but I am SO happy and excited for you. I will run the excitement show any time!
Congratulations! I join the internet in being thrilled!
By Kirsten on 09.14.10 3:10 am | Permalink
Twitter: @nursie
I saw that picture load up and started bawling. And then Nate wanted to know what I was crying about, and when I told him this person I know online is finally pregnant again he looked at me like I have a 3rd head. Because, y’know, a 2nd head is normal. LOL
So, so, SO happy for you….
By Diane on 09.14.10 3:23 am | Permalink
Twitter: @gingermaxim
How awesome and wonderful! Congratulations!!
By J from Ireland on 09.14.10 4:04 am | Permalink
This is just the best news EVER. I am so happy or you, congratulations!!
Now, how are you feeling, how many weeks are you, did you tell Addie???
By Boulder on 09.14.10 4:39 am | Permalink
Twitter: @bboulderr
Congratulations!
I’m sure it will be a rollercoaster ride of emotions – I hope you’ll vent whenever you need to. Take care.
By Jan on 09.14.10 5:44 am | Permalink
Wonderful.
By Ashlee on 09.14.10 5:50 am | Permalink
Twitter: @imtopsyturvy
Wow wow WOW! Casey what amazing news. Keep us all posted! When are you due and all that? My baby sister and I hare 7 years apart and while we weren’t very close growing up we are SUPER close now. I’m sure Addie is thrilled! At her age she’ll really get to have fun with the baby! A big helper for you.
By Whitney on 09.14.10 6:18 am | Permalink
Twitter: @magnolia_queen
You deserve this. Try to be happy, to enjoy it. I know it’s much harder done than said, but you deserve to be happy, for you, for Cody, for Addie, and this baby. You deserve to enjoy this, and I so hope you are able to, I really do.
On a happier note, I am so happy for you!! I’m also excited to see how cute this baby will be, because Addie is just gorgeous.
By SciFi Dad on 09.14.10 6:23 am | Permalink
Twitter: @_scifidad_
I’m at a loss for words. Congratulations, Casey. I am so happy for all three of you.
By Ohh Betsy! on 09.14.10 6:27 am | Permalink
Twitter: @ohhbetsy
You know how happy I am for you. One thing I’ve been thinking of is the timing. Imagine if I had twins during law school. Not impossible but so much harder. Now that Moosh is in school, you may be able to rest more during your prenancy and sickness. I understand having different emotions. I cried about giving up my alone time with G. It’s really early. Forgive my rambling
By ClassyFabSarah on 09.14.10 6:29 am | Permalink
Twitter: @ClassyFabSarah
I wanted to say some (really really happy!) swear words but then I remembered your blog would censor me. So that was stressful.
Instead…. holy $#&^%$ @*&^%$.
I am thrilled for you and your family.
CONGRATULATIONS!!
I am sending up many happy prayers for you today.
By DWJ on 09.14.10 6:33 am | Permalink
Twitter: @theaofa
Congrats
By Haley W. on 09.14.10 6:38 am | Permalink
Twitter: @hwall1018
OMGOMGOMGOMG
Congratulations!!!! I’m so happy for you!
By Heidi on 09.14.10 7:02 am | Permalink
Twitter: @hvasallo
Oh wow! Huge congrats to you! I hope you feel better soon. Keep up with your therapy and think happy thoughts when you can! You have a new life inside you!
(Know that you aren’t alone in your yucky thoughts. I was one of “those” that became pregnant by surprise with my third child last year. I didn’t find out for two months. When I did, I was very sad and my sadness lasted a long time. Three months ago I gave birth to a beautiful, perfect and happy baby! You can do it too!)
By hat on 09.14.10 7:07 am | Permalink
Twitter: @___harriet___
I saw the title and i hoped.. I am so happy for you.. i squealed outloud. I wish you the best of luck with your pregnancy.
By Mim on 09.14.10 7:08 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mimsmithfaro
((hugs)) and prayers. May you have peace and joy and a happy and healthy pregnancy.
By jen on 09.14.10 7:13 am | Permalink
Casey i have been reading your blog for so long now and as soon as the page loaded and i saw this i gasped with excitement for you. Im sure you are anxious about it but i truly believe this is such a blessing and you will have peace of mind soon!
I wish you the best of luck, health and happiness during the pregnancy. You have a ton of people following you on this journey and sending you good vibes, including myself. Much love <3
By Maggie on 09.14.10 7:23 am | Permalink
Twitter: @andtheducksaid
I always read and never leave a comment, but this clearly deserves a change in routine. CONGRATS! Such wonderful and exciting news – I’m so happy for you and your family!
By Neeroc on 09.14.10 7:25 am | Permalink
Twitter: @therealneeroc
Congratulations and thanks for making me cry!
By Marianne on 09.14.10 7:28 am | Permalink
Totally de-lurking to say…
CONGRATULATIONS!
By Sara on 09.14.10 7:30 am | Permalink
Twitter: @aliasbob
My heart stopped and I got tears in my eyes.
After reading about all of your struggles and heartbreaks–I am so, SO HAPPY for you and your family.
Congratulations on your WONDERFUL news! ^_^
By Jennifer on 09.14.10 7:30 am | Permalink
Twitter: @3weasels
Congratulations! I am so happy for you.
By Coley on 09.14.10 7:38 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Stilladazey
This post just made my day. You’ll feel it soon, don’t worry.
Congrats!
By Kylee on 09.14.10 7:38 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Kyleelb
Congratulations!! I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months!
By Kerri on 09.14.10 7:39 am | Permalink
I think this is my first comment, I’ve just been one of those lurkers and this had me in tears as soon as I saw the first line. I am so, so excited for you. As someone who is 7 1/2 years younger than her brother for the same reason I feel I can relate. Congratulations. Sending love your way.
By Katherine Stone on 09.14.10 7:40 am | Permalink
Twitter: @postpartumprogr
What a beautiful and honest way to share both your happiness and your ambivalence. Both are understandable. I’m very happy for you.
By Michelle on 09.14.10 7:46 am | Permalink
By trifitmom on 09.14.10 7:50 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mommyvents
i had to reread bc the photo did not come up and i was like…wait and then i saw the photo. my god take care of this baby and you……god bless
By Senora H-B on 09.14.10 7:51 am | Permalink
Twitter: @senorahb
Oh! Congratulations! Your news made my morning.
Senora H-B Reply:
September 14th, 2010 at 7:52 am
@Senora H-B, And I should say, my sisters are 9 1/2 years younger than my brothers for the same reason. We love them so much.
By Becky on 09.14.10 7:52 am | Permalink
Twitter: @rabidcat
I’m so incredibly happy for you! It’s odd to feel so happy for someone I’ve never met. And if good will and the loving thoughts of others can carry you over the low spots you’ll be floating miles high.
The rest will come. It always does.
By Angela on 09.14.10 7:54 am | Permalink
(Said with smiles and laughter and absolutely ecstatic JOY for you) Golly everyone is pregnant!!!! I was just telling my husband that and he reassured me he wasn’t. But this is a long time coming and I am so FREAKING HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!!!!! Congratulations!
By OHmommy on 09.14.10 7:54 am | Permalink
Twitter: @ohmommy
A million congrats Casey!
By Melanie O on 09.14.10 7:55 am | Permalink
This post brought tears to my eyes.
I am so so so very happy for you!!
Congratulations to you and your beautiful little family!!
By Lee Laughlin on 09.14.10 7:56 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Fearless
YAY!! And yes, I’ve been there done that with the emotions too. I wish you peace and an easy pregnancy. SUPER HUGS!!!
By Tina on 09.14.10 8:06 am | Permalink
This is SO worth de-lurking (or leaving the comfort of the Reader) for. Congratulations!!!!
Makes you think God really has a sense of humor, doesn’t it?
By lceel on 09.14.10 8:07 am | Permalink
Twitter: @lceel
Oh my. Casey. I can’t tell you how pleased I am for you – I know what this has meant to you.
HUG. Big HUG. Big LONG HUG all the way from Chicago.
Congratulations, sweet thing.
By Maria on 09.14.10 8:12 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mariamelee
This is unbelievably cool.
Love love love.
By Mandi Bone on 09.14.10 8:12 am | Permalink
Twitter: @2princessmama
I am so happy for you,Addie,and Cody. Congratulations!
By Kelli on 09.14.10 8:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @KelliSutton
Congrats Casey!! This is awesome news!
By joanna on 09.14.10 8:18 am | Permalink
Twitter: @keepingfeet
I’m tearing up, knowing how long you waited for this. Addie is going to be a big sister! And, months from now, you & Cody will get to hold your new little life. So happy for you- and so happy that this baby I’m expecting will have another Indy friend!
By Meredith on 09.14.10 8:19 am | Permalink
Twitter: @smileEyes
CONGRATS! I’m sure it’s emotional and exciting and scary all at once but I am just so excited for you!!!
By Krystle on 09.14.10 8:19 am | Permalink
Twitter: @snarkykisses
So happy for you doesn’t even comPARE to my thoughts. SO HAPPY x150,000,000.
By Brooke on 09.14.10 8:20 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Brookedowdsacco
Just came across your blog through @Metalia on Twitter. I had to comment to say I just told a friend yesterday that I do not believe those “we stopped trying and it happened” stories.
Eating my words…
Congratulations!
By velocibadgergirl on 09.14.10 8:21 am | Permalink
Twitter: @velocibadgerGRL
Congrats!!
By Julie on 09.14.10 8:22 am | Permalink
I am so happy for you I think I am going to cry… and not just because of my own pregnancy hormones either. Congratulations!
By Christy on 09.14.10 8:23 am | Permalink
Congratulations!! Such wonderful news!
By pamela on 09.14.10 8:23 am | Permalink
Twitter: @vampiresmitten
That is exciting news! Congrats to your family! Thrilled for you!
By Avitable on 09.14.10 8:26 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Avitable
I’m so glad you finally shared this with the world. I’m so happy for you! xo
By Becky on 09.14.10 8:28 am | Permalink
Twitter: @blogger_becky
I just got massive chills up my spine. I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! Congratulations, Casey!
By Blair@HeirtoBlair on 09.14.10 8:28 am | Permalink
Twitter: @heirtoblair
oh, congratulations sweet friend!!!! I am thrilled down to my toes for you!
By kj on 09.14.10 8:33 am | Permalink
Twitter: @KJ_is_GFree
Congratulations!
I too had an unexpected “gap” between my first born and my twins, nearly 6 years. BUT, turns out, that gap worked out great because I have a built-in babysitter!
By Laura on 09.14.10 8:34 am | Permalink
…and it looks like you have a LOT of our excitement to go on!
I AM so excited for you! I have come to feel that those emotions of not being able to fit in on either side are familiar with many of the women who have fought the battles of infertility and then had the miracle of becoming pregnant. And it is truly a beautiful miracle, thank you for sharing it with us and letting us be a part of your journey!
By Kayley M. on 09.14.10 8:37 am | Permalink
Twitter: @kayleym115
I’m so happy for you! I took the exact same pregnancy test yesterday (9/13/10) and got the same results! Congratulations!
By muskrat on 09.14.10 8:37 am | Permalink
Twitter: @themuskrat
Congrats…hope it’s an easy one.
By Monica on 09.14.10 8:40 am | Permalink
Twitter: @peapodsquadmom
girl…you didn’t lose your infertile card. you just earned a miracle mommy one to go with it. you already know how excited i genuinely am for you and cody. live every moment of this…breathe it in…focus on the joy of now. and know that so many folks are praying for you. love you to pieces, casey!
By Emily on 09.14.10 8:41 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Emmy_kay_919
Congratulations Casey! This is wonderful news! I do understand some of your emotions, too. We were in fertility treatments for 18 months and experienced a miscarriage at 8 1/2 weeks (after seeing the heartbeat). I am now 10 weeks pregnant with twins and I am filled with equal amounts of happiness and fear most of the time. When are you due?
By Jessica on 09.14.10 8:41 am | Permalink
Oh my gosh – I am so so happy for you. I will pray for a healthy pregnancy and emotional peace. I know you will all be fine.
By Lisa on 09.14.10 8:43 am | Permalink
Twitter: @letstalkbabies
Oh, I’m just over the hills happy for you.
By bekah on 09.14.10 8:45 am | Permalink
Twitter: @countrymouse_
What an answer to prayers! Congratulations!!
By Mommy Daisy on 09.14.10 8:47 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mommydaisy
So excited for you! And it gives me a little more hope too. **HUGS** Praying you have a very easy pregnancy too! Congrats!
By Lauryn on 09.14.10 8:48 am | Permalink
Twitter: @growthelove
So very happy for you
By nic @mybottlesup on 09.14.10 8:49 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mybottlesup
YAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!!!!!! wishing you a very happy and healthy pregnancy.
By suzanne @ pretty*swell on 09.14.10 8:49 am | Permalink
Twitter: @pretty_swell
Casey! Congratulations!!!!! BIG HUGS!
By Daisy on 09.14.10 8:51 am | Permalink
Twitter: @DaisyJD
Wrapping you up in love & excitement. Let me know if/when you need some cracker recommendations.
By Tricai on 09.14.10 8:53 am | Permalink
Twitter: @irishsamom
You SO DESERVE this joy and blessing after all you’ve been through and the long journey you’ve walked. My children are four years apart, due to the endometriosis curse and the Lupron, etc and they are both amazing human beings. So happy for you and your family. Love and hugs,
Tricia
By Alisha in Ohio on 09.14.10 8:53 am | Permalink
Twitter: @imabuckeye
Such amazing wonderful news Casey! Congratulations to the entire Moosh family!
By Jen on 09.14.10 8:53 am | Permalink
Twitter: @jayesel
I am so freaking incredibly happy for you. Like… whoa.
By Emily on 09.14.10 8:54 am | Permalink
Twitter: @that_girl_lola
‘Happy for you’ doesn’t quite cut it- beyond words is more appropriate. Wishing you the best- happiest and healthiest of pregnancies- all around.
By Shelley on 09.14.10 8:54 am | Permalink
Twitter: @seashells
Holy Crap I just choked on some peanuts when I read that! CONGRATS!!!
By amber on 09.14.10 8:55 am | Permalink
Twitter: @amberpagewrites
That’s completely fantastic. Congratulations! I hope you find your joy soon.
By Alison on 09.14.10 8:58 am | Permalink
Woohoo! Congrats! I know exactly how you feel, believe me. I am 23 weeks pregnant at the moment after 2 years of trying. Those first few weeks are a doozy. I know. Who am I kidding? I just had an ultrasound last week and I was still nervous that all would be well (after already having one 4 weeks prior). It is easing a bit, the worry and all, but just know you aren’t alone, you aren’t crazy, and I really think it is normal.
I wasn’t sure how much of it was waiting for so long and it finally happening verses being older this go around and knowing all that could go wrong. Ignorance is truly bliss in pregnancy! I have a daughter that will turn 9 next month. I was 24 while pregnant with her. Boy how things were different! haha.
Anyway, I am truly happy for you. Take it one day at a time and remember that those days will turn into weeks and those weeks will turn into months. I hope all is well and you stay healthy and happy!
By Maura B on 09.14.10 8:59 am | Permalink
Twitter: @moluvb
Congratulations Casey! God Bless you and your whole family!
By Tiffany on 09.14.10 9:00 am | Permalink
Congrats, Casey! I am wishing with all my wishes that this pregnancy is a smooth one for you.
By Amanda on 09.14.10 9:00 am | Permalink
Twitter: @amandagranner
The thing going through my head reading this is “good things come to those who wait.” You deserve this joy to add to your family and circle of love. Congratulations!
By Jen L. on 09.14.10 9:01 am | Permalink
Twitter: @jennelsonlane
CASEY!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, my goodness, how wonderful! I’m so happy for you, Cody and Addie. What a wonderful blessing. Take good care of yourself. xoxoxo YAY!
By Cassie on 09.14.10 9:01 am | Permalink
Oh Casey! How absolutely wonderdifferus!!!! I’m over the moon and back excited for you.
By Chris on 09.14.10 9:06 am | Permalink
Twitter: @dadsinc
Congrats to all of you!
By @sweetbabboo on 09.14.10 9:06 am | Permalink
Twitter: @sweetbabboo
Congratulations! Wishing you a pregnancy full of only happiness, excitement, and ease.
Can the world really handle another insanely cute, curly headed, angel face? We just might burst from the sheer beauty of it.
-Abby
By Katie @ Nap Time in Naptown on 09.14.10 9:07 am | Permalink
Twitter: @katiejmayes
The blogging world is so strange on the outside. We’ve never met but I’m so incredibly happy for you this morning. And on the inside, it makes perfect sense to me.
What wonderful, wonderful news.
By Stacy on 09.14.10 9:07 am | Permalink
Twitter: @smquaseb
Yay! So excited for you!!!
By Nancy on 09.14.10 9:09 am | Permalink
Twitter: @fandpinlvgmail.com
What great news to wake up to! Congrats to you and your growing family!
By Must Be Motherhood on 09.14.10 9:10 am | Permalink
Twitter: @StateofKate
AND ALL IS RIGHT AGAIN IN INDIANA !!!!
I have been hoping for this moment from the first time we met at the YMCA, lady.
By Tricia on 09.14.10 9:10 am | Permalink
Twitter: @amelie522
YAY!!!!! I cannot tell you how thrilled I am for you, Casey!!! When I saw that picture, I think I squealed in a way that frightened my husband. And at 28 weeks pregnant here, my belly is oh-so-joyful for yours. Congrats to you and your entire Moosh crew!
By Jeanette on 09.14.10 9:12 am | Permalink
Congratulations! All the best stuff comes with mixed emotions, doesn’t it?
By Colleen on 09.14.10 9:14 am | Permalink
Twitter: @cookiesmommy
OH MY GOSH!!! I am crying big ugly mascara streaking tears of joy for you right here at my desk. Congratulations Casey, God knows you SO deserve it!!
By beccasaun84 on 09.14.10 9:15 am | Permalink
Twitter: @beccasaun84
YEYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
By Darla on 09.14.10 9:15 am | Permalink
Twitter: @darlaf
I am SO HAPPY for you!!
By Kelly on 09.14.10 9:15 am | Permalink
Congratulations and my condolences for your sadness/fear. Hope you can get to your happy place and enjoy God’s gift to you soon.
By sam {temptingmama} on 09.14.10 9:15 am | Permalink
Twitter: @temptingsam
I am SO glad you’ve shared this. I love you and am so very happy for you.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
By Amy Bennett on 09.14.10 9:17 am | Permalink
Twitter: @amyjbennett
I just yelled SHUT UP at my computer screen.
Congrats!
By Esther Crawford on 09.14.10 9:18 am | Permalink
Twitter: @faintstarlite
Am sooo happy for you. *big gigantic hugs*
By Sarah on 09.14.10 9:20 am | Permalink
Twitter: @SarahCB1208
CONGRATS!!
By Carmen on 09.14.10 9:20 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mttsm
CASEY!!!!!!!! I’m THRILLED for you!!!!
By Jo on 09.14.10 9:20 am | Permalink
Twitter: @MinnesotaJoY
I’m all sniffly with happy for you…ok, allergies too but MOSTLY HAPPY.
By Kelly on 09.14.10 9:22 am | Permalink
I am so HAPPY for you guys!! Congratulations!!!!
By Sherry Lane on 09.14.10 9:22 am | Permalink
Twitter: @sherryluvphotos
I just yelled OH MY GOSH at my desk, at work! And everyone thought I was nuts, lol. YEAHHHHH! So excited for your family and cannot wait to read about it!!
By Melissa on 09.14.10 9:23 am | Permalink
Twitter: @memphislis
Wait. What? You’re pregnant? With Moosh 2.0?? OMG OMG OMG I am thrilled for you. Thrilled beyond measure, tears rolling down my face, thanking God, thrilled. I can be thrilled enough for the both of us until you are thrilled too. Blessings!
By Katie on 09.14.10 9:23 am | Permalink
Twitter: @ksluiter
Happy sighs for you…
This is how I felt when I got pregnant with Eddie. We had tried. He was try number 3. I THOUGHT I would be thrilled. Thrilled didn’t happen until about a month ago. When he was 13 months old. So there is that.
But thrilled? It will come. It just takes time.
In the meantime? The rest of us will fill up your world with joy.
Because we love you and support you.
a lot.
By Amanda on 09.14.10 9:25 am | Permalink
Twitter: @amandamagee
There will be joy, there will.
By Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] on 09.14.10 9:26 am | Permalink
Twitter: @alotofnothing
CONGRATS!
By Lauren on 09.14.10 9:29 am | Permalink
Twitter: @firstoffifth
I don’t think I’ve EVER been this happy to read a pregnancy announcement. Ever. Congratulations!
By Boston Mamas on 09.14.10 9:33 am | Permalink
Twitter: @bostonmamas
DUDE, there must be something in the water.
I am utterly thrilled for you!
And I’m just finally over the shock of finding out (after 4 years of nada) that I’m pregnant as well (see http://www.bostonmamas.com/2010/07/big_news.html).
Hugs to you. -Christine
By roneyii on 09.14.10 9:34 am | Permalink
Twitter: @roneyii
Qapla’!
By Cute~Ella on 09.14.10 9:35 am | Permalink
Twitter: @cuteellais
Casey this is WONDERFUL! Congratulations to you, Cody and Addie.
By Karen Sugarpants on 09.14.10 9:36 am | Permalink
Twitter: @karensugarpants
Oh yay! I’m so glad I don’t hafta keep this a secret anymore! I’ve been bursting for you and it’s hard to contain it!
Love you lady. So much.
By Al on 09.14.10 9:40 am | Permalink
Wow – This is wonderful – so wonderful!!
By designHer Momma on 09.14.10 9:41 am | Permalink
Twitter: @designhermomma
I don’t feel bad that I’m like the 200th commenter. Because I have a feeling I was more like one of the first to get a The Call.
This whole deal means a lot to me. A big prayer answered.
We will get you through this.
By Lolli on 09.14.10 9:41 am | Permalink
Twitter: @1momof5
I am thrilled for you, and though I haven’t had to walk the infertile road myself, I’ve walked alongside my sister and best friend while they have. And just two days ago, I got to hold my new niece, a miracle. My sister had a hard time getting used to the idea and being excited about having another baby, but I couldn’t believe the happiness in that hospital room on Sunday.
By lettergirl on 09.14.10 9:43 am | Permalink
Twitter: @lettergirl
How wonderful!! Congratulations and prayers for a healthy little one!!
By Hamlet's Mistress on 09.14.10 9:46 am | Permalink
Twitter: @hamletsmistress
Holy Crap! Congratulations. And hugs to you. Joy is an emotion best felt without guilt. Feel the joy whole-heartedly.
Hamlet’s Mistress
By charing on 09.14.10 9:47 am | Permalink
This is big news… I have been reading your blog for some time but never comment but for this news I had to come out ofhiding to congratulate you….very happy for you!
By Tiffany on 09.14.10 9:49 am | Permalink
Twitter: @CTSanders
I am so happy for you both! YAY!!!!!!!!!!
Congrats!!!
By Hockeymandad on 09.14.10 9:52 am | Permalink
Twitter: @hockeymandad
Congratulations!
By Goodnight moon on 09.14.10 9:54 am | Permalink
Congrats!!!!! I’m so excited for you!
By amy2boys on 09.14.10 9:54 am | Permalink
Twitter: @amy2boys
OMGOOOOOOSH!!!!!! I’m crying over here!! So happy for you Casey – I don’t know what to do with the HUG! Should I hug some random co-worker because AHHHH!!!
By mediakath on 09.14.10 9:58 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mediakath
Well, I see you’re conflicted. But then I look at your luscious photos of children and families and I KNOW you’ll be fine and CONGRATULATIONS on another addition to the family…your little moosh won’t be an only child after all, which is GREAT! Wait ’til you see how great it is to watch their relationship bloom. It has been so very gratifying and entertaining for us…with our THREE children!
By Kelly S. on 09.14.10 9:59 am | Permalink
Twitter: @zbirdmama
Congratulations and so many good thoughts, wishes, hopes and much more coming your way. What a great piece of news to get this morning!
By Nikosha on 09.14.10 10:00 am | Permalink
I am a fellow Indy Mom who has been reading your blog forever. I just choked on my coffee. WOW! So Mooshinindy is gonna get a new name.May I suggest Mooshes inindy? I’m just sayin.
By Mrs. Chicken on 09.14.10 10:01 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mrschicken
Casey, my heart is so happy for you. You know, having No. 2 was rough emotionally; so wanted, so feared, so hard to imagine loving another. I can’t even imagine the chaos that infertility can add to that storm.
You’ll get there, and we’ll all be here with you. Take good, good care of you.
By zeghsy on 09.14.10 10:01 am | Permalink
Twitter: @zeghsy
We’ll be happy and excited for you until you are able. In the meantime, big hugs to you and Moosh and the hubs.
By Chrystal on 09.14.10 10:04 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Mommafo
Very, very happy for you. Very. And I’d be very happy to gift you every last piece of my maternity clothes.
By Leslie on 09.14.10 10:04 am | Permalink
Twitter: @lesalina
No choking. No being alone. If you’re still on the “hurry and eat a lot – just in case” plan and need an eating buddy, feel free to call
By Greg McMullen on 09.14.10 10:05 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mcmullen_greg
Congratulations! I’m sure your daughter will be thrilled to have a brother or sister!
By Loukia on 09.14.10 10:06 am | Permalink
Twitter: @MrsLoulou
CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU! This is such amazing, amazing, wonderful news. I can imagine all the emotions you are feeling. You will be fine. You’re always a wonderful mom. You’ll be amazing this time, too. xox
By elz on 09.14.10 10:08 am | Permalink
Twitter: @txelz
Yea! Yea! Yea. Congratulations. Happy that your crappy, unfun journey has finally brought you here. May your pregnancy be uneventful.
By Jamie on 09.14.10 10:10 am | Permalink
Twitter: @AllMyLooseEnds
When I saw the picture in my blog reader I got teary eyed. It might be hard to enjoy this time because you’re scared of so many things. I really wish you a TON of health and happiness. What a great way to start my Tuesday. <3
By C @ Kid Things on 09.14.10 10:11 am | Permalink
Twitter: @kidthingsnet
I am SO excited for you! Congratulations!
By Amy on 09.14.10 10:12 am | Permalink
Another person de-lurking to say congrats! And I live in Indy too, so I really feel like I know you though we’ve never met.
My kids are 5 years apart, thanks to 3 miscarriages, so I totally get being afraid rather than excited for a pregnancy. It sucked enough that I’ll never consider a third child. And it does go away, somewhere around week 30. On the other hand, the age difference has worked out better than I could have ever hoped for. I wish you the feeling of “complete” that our littlest brought our family. It’s truly awesome. Can’t wait to hear about the journey!
By cindy w on 09.14.10 10:12 am | Permalink
Twitter: @poobou
I actually screamed out loud for you when I saw this. I am so, so, SOOOOO excited for you!! YAAAYY BABIES!!!
By Wendy on 09.14.10 10:13 am | Permalink
Congratulations Casey! I pray that you will feel only those emotions that you want to feel.
By Laura on 09.14.10 10:13 am | Permalink
Yay!!!
By Adventures In Babywearing on 09.14.10 10:13 am | Permalink
Twitter: @babysteph
Holy wow I’m a bit late to the comment party but you KNOW how thrilled I am. I am I am I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO excited.
Love,
Steph
By merrymishaps on 09.14.10 10:18 am | Permalink
Twitter: @merrymishaps
So happy for you!
By Lisa @ Crazy Adventures in Parenting on 09.14.10 10:19 am | Permalink
Twitter: @crazyadventures
Oh the tears.. THE TEARS!! CASEY!! AHHH!! Congratulations sweetheart!! <3
By Kristabella on 09.14.10 10:20 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Kristabella
YAY! I’m so excited for you! This was an excellent story to wake up to on my birthday!
CONGRATS!!!
By kristin on 09.14.10 10:21 am | Permalink
huge hugs… big congratulations!!! so very, very happy for you!
By Danielle ExtraordinaryMommy on 09.14.10 10:22 am | Permalink
Twitter: @DanielleSmithTV
Fantabulous.
I am excited for you. xoxo
By Jenn on 09.14.10 10:25 am | Permalink
Congratulations beyond congratulations! I’m so excited, happy and terrified for you. I’ve never commented before but I feel such a connection to your journey that the sight of that clear blue test made me tear up at work. Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months and sending truckloads of sticky-baby dust your way.
By Sherry Carr-Smith on 09.14.10 10:25 am | Permalink
Twitter: @prCarrS
What a wonderful thing to hear this morning! Congratulations! Buy the TUMS now, you’ll need them
By Lindsay on 09.14.10 10:26 am | Permalink
Wow! Congrats to you!!!
Hoping for an awesome 9 month experience for you!
By Marie Green on 09.14.10 10:27 am | Permalink
Twitter: @lifeinatinytown
I am seriously, SERIOUSLY thrilled for you, Casey! For some reason, even when you talked openly and bluntly about giving up, I was not able to give up hope for you. My new hope for you is that you can slowly, carefully allow yourself to relax into this pregnancy, that you can start to trust that your body can and WILL do this, and that you can enjoy some aspect of this journey long before they place that sweet babe in your arms.
Also, I can’t WAIT to hear more details! When are you due? How did you find out? How did you tell Cody? How did you tell Addy? SO MANY QUESTIONS.
Congrats, my dear. I’m thrilled for you!
By tara on 09.14.10 10:29 am | Permalink
Twitter: @twesely
hooray, congrats, casey!
i am happy for you and happy to be excited for you until you are happy and excited too.
i had to live off the fumes of others’ enthusiasm for this (current) pregnancy (my second) until i hit about 20 weeks. for different reasons perhaps, but still.
big huge hugs to you.
By Babybloomr on 09.14.10 10:31 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Babybloomr
SO very happy for you!
I’m a secondary infertility success story. My first daughter was born when I was 36. We had some trouble getting pregnant, so for our second we went straight to intrauterine insemination, which is how it happened the first time, after two tries.
Well, eleven IUI’s, one miscarriage and an exploratory laparoscopy later (they found nothing wrong), I FINALLY got pregnant! I had Charlotte the month after I turned 40. Totally normal pregnancy and delivery, no complications.
Madi Rose is now 18 and Charlotte is 14. I thank God for them every single day.
By karla porter on 09.14.10 10:32 am | Permalink
Twitter: @karpo
i am so so happy for you. i know you have struggled with this, and so many have felt your heartache. Now so many are rejoicing for and with you.
big HUGE congrats. And prayers for you, that you will feel at peace with this blessing and that you will in turn bless many through it via your understanding and having “been there”…
Congrats.
By Sarah Partain on 09.14.10 10:36 am | Permalink
Twitter: @sallycollage
Wow, congrats. I have no idea what it’s like to wait for a baby. But I do know what it’s like to wait for the other shoe to drop.
Our first was born 10 weeks premature and before I got pregnant with the second, I had a month where I acted pregnant and then had a heaby period (not sure, still, if I miscarried). So with the second pregnancy, I was scared, of miscarrying, of premature birth, of trisomy 18, of lots of things. My mom, a midwife, gave me sound advice. She said because everything is ok and normal so far, act and think as though this is a normal and healthy pregnancy, until something happens to change that. I was able to relax somewhat after that and feel a bit better. But I celebrated every milestone, including being pregnant in week 31.
Excited and praying for you, too.
By Bee on 09.14.10 10:36 am | Permalink
Congratulations and many prayers for a happy and healthy pregnancy!
By Lisa on 09.14.10 10:37 am | Permalink
Twitter: @lisavielee
Let me add my !!!!!!! to the mix. Congratulations to Addie too who will get to be the very wise big sister.
By Angi on 09.14.10 10:42 am | Permalink
Twitter: @OnlyAngi
I’ve been unplugged…unconnected…out of the loop. But I am…crying real tears of pure joy. And I know you’re scared. ((hugs)) I will pray for you and all of yours every day.
Love.
By Meghan on 09.14.10 10:43 am | Permalink
What?!!! Ahhhh, Casey…..so, so happy for you! Congrats to your little family!
By Heather @ Domestic Extraordinaire on 09.14.10 10:44 am | Permalink
Twitter: @hdurdil
So very happy and excited for you!
Much love and many prayers!!
xo
By Sasha on 09.14.10 10:46 am | Permalink
AHHHHHHHHHHH! I am SOOOO happy for you! Girl if I could I would be doing cartwheels and flips. Congrats!
By leel on 09.14.10 10:50 am | Permalink
Twitter: @leeleykeel
omg! omg!
yay! (and whoa… crazy emotions AND hormones?!? sit down and breathe, you!)
i so knew it. don’t ask me how, but i did. i am so excited for you.
isn’t the universe cheeky?!
By Chrisor on 09.14.10 10:51 am | Permalink
Twitter: @ynotkissme
Good news travels fast! You’re burning up the Internet with your amazing news! Life has a way of never letting you get comfortable with what’s going on. Here’s to an easier adjustment than you expect regarding your pregnancy…once the shock wears off. Get down with your bad (pregnant) self!
By Burgh Baby on 09.14.10 10:51 am | Permalink
Twitter: @burghbaby
You know I don’t cuss, right? Not often, anyway. Given that you don’t either, it strikes me as funny that my very first thought was F**K, YEAH! Except, you know, without the little stars.
SOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU!
By Stacie on 09.14.10 10:55 am | Permalink
Twitter: @staciesmadness
congratulations.
By Kami on 09.14.10 10:56 am | Permalink
Twitter: @kamibigler
Congrats Casey! So happy for you!
ps. now go wash your your hands, cuz ew! you peed on that.
By Angee on 09.14.10 10:56 am | Permalink
Twitter: @angeecolvin
I am so thrilled for you. I got goosebumps reading your post. I don’t think infertility ever goes away, regardless if you get pregnant or not. You’re always welcome on our side.
Hoping and praying for a happy and healthy 9 months for you!
By erin on 09.14.10 10:57 am | Permalink
I am so happy for you!
By Sunshine on 09.14.10 10:57 am | Permalink
Twitter: @beingfranklin
I am thrilled and crying at work for you. Congratulations!
By Loralee on 09.14.10 11:00 am | Permalink
Twitter: @looneytunes
You finally let the cat out of the bag and I love how you did it!
LOVE YOU, babe.
Utterly.
xo
Loralee Reply:
September 14th, 2010 at 11:05 am
@Loralee, P.S. It will be OK. xo
By Lizzy on 09.14.10 11:00 am | Permalink
Twitter: @runningperson
Hoo Yah, Master Chief!
Congratulations, and welcome to little Mooshlet!
By Kelly @ Love Well on 09.14.10 11:01 am | Permalink
Twitter: @kellyatlovewell
How WONDERFUL! Congratulations! May the fear be snuffed out daily by joy.
By Barb @ getupandplay on 09.14.10 11:01 am | Permalink
Twitter: @getupandplay
I’m super duper happy for you! I hope that you can feel peaceful soon. I know you will. Love you!
By Amy @ Bitchin' Wives Club on 09.14.10 11:01 am | Permalink
Twitter: @theBitchinWife
What amazing news!!! Congratulations and best wishes and good luck and God bless.
By AmazingGreis on 09.14.10 11:03 am | Permalink
Twitter: @AmazingGreis
Squeeeeeeeeee!!! So very, very happy for you!!! Congrats to you, the husband and Addie! XOXO
By Lotus / Sarcastic Mom on 09.14.10 11:06 am | Permalink
Twitter: @SarcasticMomLC
<3<3<3
Also
And XOXOXO
Additionally, Squee!
By colleen - mommy always wins on 09.14.10 11:08 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mommy_wins
Congratulations!!!
By Kim on 09.14.10 11:09 am | Permalink
Twitter: @prairiemama
I am SO thrilled for you Casey!!!! We can be together
Congrats Mama!!!!
By Tara R. on 09.14.10 11:11 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Tara_R
Awesome news!
By schmutzie on 09.14.10 11:13 am | Permalink
Twitter: @schmutzie
Oh, wow. So exciting and so terrifying, this pregnancy thing. You will be brilliant.
By Whit on 09.14.10 11:13 am | Permalink
Twitter: @whatswithwhit
THIS MADE ME SO HAPPY!!! Hugs all around!
By Swiggy on 09.14.10 11:14 am | Permalink
Twitter: @meswiggy
Squeeeeee!!!! SO HAPPY!!!! CONGRATS!!
By mommabird2345 on 09.14.10 11:14 am | Permalink
Twitter: @mommabird2345
CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am SO HAPPY for you & Cody!!!!!!!!! That is amazing!
By Sarah on 09.14.10 11:16 am | Permalink
I am a faithful reader but rare commenter… just HAD to say congratulations! I can’t imagine the mix of emotions you must be dealing with but will keep you in my prayers as you sort through all of this…
so exciting!!
By Cate on 09.14.10 11:16 am | Permalink
Twitter: @cathilynnk
Finally! Mega congrats! Just be happy and don’t worry!
By Lu on 09.14.10 11:20 am | Permalink
I would like to tell you I want to knit the baby something, but I know it will be five years before the little one actually gets it. So, instead, I will imagine a lovely cap on the little lovely one’s head. I will also imagine you embracing this time you are in and riding that wave of fear. It is okay to feel this way, but know that tomorrow offers an opportunity for you to finally celebrate what you have desired for such a long time. Blessings to you and your family, Casey. And, know that you are being lifted and take a little bit of my joy, because it is overflowing right now as I embrace this road of divorce I am on. Be full of joy and know that you are being showered with love and blessings…and eventually a little knitted cap for the babe.
By Chantel on 09.14.10 11:20 am | Permalink
Twitter: @knowmeloveme
Congratulations Casey & Cody!!!
By Melissa on 09.14.10 11:22 am | Permalink
Twitter: @melissity
SO, SO HAPPY for you! It’s ok to be scared; it’s also ok to be over the moon at the same time. Congratulations lady!!
By Kelley on 09.14.10 11:25 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Mommafitzy
Oh my gosh! Congrats! Babies, babies everywhere it seems!
By Vickie on 09.14.10 11:25 am | Permalink
By Nic on 09.14.10 11:31 am | Permalink
Twitter: @notperfect
Oh how wonderful! Congratulations!
By Sarahviz on 09.14.10 11:32 am | Permalink
Twitter: @sarahviz
Wahoooooo! Congrats honey!
By Kristin on 09.14.10 11:32 am | Permalink
Twitter: @kristins4kids
Congratulations! Everything that you’ve written brings back what I felt when I finally got pregnant with my son. He and my oldest are 4 years apart. I was happy and extremely nervous all at once; I think it’s ok to feel that way. Cheers to you and your family!
By Haley-O (Cheaty) on 09.14.10 11:34 am | Permalink
Twitter: @cheaty
OMG!!!!!!!!!!! I knew it. I knew you’d have another. I KNEW IT!!!! That said, MAZEL TOV!!! xoxo So happy for you!!!!!!!!! (!!!!) !
By Julie {Angry Julie Monday} on 09.14.10 11:39 am | Permalink
Twitter: @AngryJulie
I saw this last night but didn’t have a chance to comment…was on my iPhone. Ironically it was because Backpacking Dad was talking about it…
O-M-G….seriously soooo happy for you!!!!
I literally cried in happiness…you have no idea how crap like this makes me an emotional mess.
It took over 18 months to get pregnant with my son so I understand, and that was after taking some medications.
By Stephanie on 09.14.10 11:53 am | Permalink
Oh HAPPY!
It’s okay to not be excited… I’m never really excited for the pregnancy part. (I kinda hate being pregnant.)
Lots of love and wishes of minimal sickness!
By Andrea (Lil-Kid-Things) on 09.14.10 11:58 am | Permalink
Twitter: @AndreaUpdyke
It sounds like you have waited and waited for this joy. I hope you embrace it and enjoy every minute! Super congrats to you mama!
By Megan {Velveteen Mind} on 09.14.10 12:00 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @VelveteenMind
You know exactly how excited I am for you. It is flat-out vulgar.
Remember when I announced I was pregnant with Olive? I waited forever because I thought I hadn’t wanted a third child and was not as excited as I owed her to be. (And I KNOW you wanted this baby like icing on cake.) It was utterly complex how I felt and it took a while to resolve.
Of course she’s gorgeous and brilliant and hilarious and endlessly worth it. But that didn’t happen when the stick said “Tell me about that plan of yours again?”
More than anything, more than your love for this baby, more than how it will grow the heart of your husband more than you could imagine… this baby will bring magic out of Moosh. Love you, babe.
By Kim- Mommycosm on 09.14.10 12:02 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @Mommycosm
Yay!!! I’m SO very happy for you
By Kellee on 09.14.10 12:06 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @Photographerkel
Much like everyone else, I am absolutely thrilled for you. I just got misty-eyed when I saw the picture. So happy for you and your family!
By Stacey on 09.14.10 12:16 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @twinmomoftwinz
Words cant express how much joy this news has brought to my day. I’m so ridiculously happy for you!
So here’s my idea: when the time comes lets have one big old baby shower LIVE and in person. You can host about 200 of your internet friends right? It will be one big old love fest dedicated to you and Moosh 2.0. How could you resist that ?
By Kristen on 09.14.10 12:17 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @zandor
I am really really happy for you. Yay!!
By JustShireen's MOM on 09.14.10 12:20 pm | Permalink
Congratulations. I think I understand how you may feel. I’ve been there. Pure joy.
By Julie on 09.14.10 12:21 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @alittlepregnant
“I’m no longer allowed to sit with the infertiles…”
Wait, WHO says you’re not allowed? Lemme know so I can kick their ass.
It’ll be a happy, joyful kicking, though — I am thrilled for you!
Congratulations.
By Sarah on 09.14.10 12:24 pm | Permalink
WOW at all the comments already!!
What an awesome, awesome blessing. I am unbelievably happy for you, Casey!! I’d give you a big ol’ hug if we weren’t states away.
I will pray that you will continually rely on the Lord, trust in his plan, and find strength and comfort in Him. You are such an awesome momma – He obviously knows that!
Also, I am already anticipating cuteness overload… evidence: Addie. I can’t wait!
By Susie on 09.14.10 12:26 pm | Permalink
We’ve never met and yet I read your blog all the time. I have come to love and look forward to your humor and wit, your courage and ease of talking about issues that aren’t so easily talked about. I am SO happy for you and your family I can barely stand it
All the best,
From a dedicated fan
By Kelly on 09.14.10 12:29 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @centsiblelife
Congratulations!
Please don’t let anyone tell you how you can feel about this.
I may not have gone through the same thing as you, but I have gone through 2 unexpected pregnancies and I know that while it feels like everyone is telling you you’re supposed to be happy, I found out that most people go through some sort of phase in their pregnancy where they feel awful, terrible, and not happy at all.
It may be complicated by circumstance or just a loathing of your swollen feet, but so many women go through that moment.
Just know at some point those feelings will change, and when you look at your baby for the first time-what side of the bench you sit on will become completely irrelevant.
So live off the fumes of our congratulations, and tears and happiness for now, eventually you’ll get there.
By Chrysta on 09.14.10 12:33 pm | Permalink
Oh Casey! Why am I crying for someone I’ve never even met? That’s the wonder of the internet, I guess. Just look at all those comments above mine. Just look at all those people who love you like I do! I am so happy for you I could burst! I’m with Backpacking Dad up there: Hot Damn!!!!!
By Windy on 09.14.10 12:47 pm | Permalink
By jennifer, playgroups are no place for children on 09.14.10 12:47 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @playgroupie
CASEY! I’m so, so, SO happy for you. Congratulations.
By Lauren on 09.14.10 1:08 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @L_Hoff
Hell. Yeah.
By Tiffinie on 09.14.10 1:08 pm | Permalink
Casey: I have been reading your blog for three years when I myself was in the deep thrones of infertility. It took me 5 years to get pregnant and then got pregnant again 6 months afterwards. I am happy for you and I can appreciate your fears. Congratulations, I wish your family well.
By Liz Hawks on 09.14.10 1:10 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @lizhawks
YAHOOOOOOOOO!!!! Big congrats to all (four) of you. The best news I’ve heard in a long, long time.
By Sarah on 09.14.10 1:12 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @3bundlesforme
That is the best news! I am so happy for you – Congratulations!!
By thepsychobabble on 09.14.10 1:15 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @thepsychobabble
*hugs* I get the whole stunned/scared/unsure if you’re excited/mixed up ball of emotions thing. Been there/done that. It will come. In the meantime….congratulations!
By Michelle Smiles on 09.14.10 1:19 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @MichelleSmiles
Wow – congrats!
I am sorry that infertility has stolen your ability to be excited. With my pregnancy with my daughter, it was a long time before I was able to feel anything but bitter and angry. I spent over half my pregnancy waiting for another miscarriage. But I finally did relax some (never completely) and enjoy the end of my pregnancy. I hope you get there sooner rather than later.
By erica on 09.14.10 1:21 pm | Permalink
amazing! what does addie think?
By Trisha Vargas on 09.14.10 1:25 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @mommy24misses
Yay, yay and yay!!!!!!!
So happy for you and your family.
By whoorl on 09.14.10 1:27 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @whoorl
SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!
By Meag on 09.14.10 1:30 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @SuburbanChaos
Oh Casey! I’m so so happy for you. As one who has been on both sides of the fertility fence, I have some idea of what you are experiencing. But I am just so so happy for you. Congratulations!
By Tania on 09.14.10 1:39 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @chickybaby
I am so very, VERY happy for you. I wish you a happy, healthy baby and, just as important right now, a pregnancy that doesn’t have you lying in the fetal position under the toilet.
Much love to you.
By Kerri Anne on 09.14.10 1:44 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @kerrianne
You win the Best News Of The Day award.
(CONGRATULATIONS!!)
By Nichole on 09.14.10 1:45 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @nicholee
Congratulations!!!! You and the wee babe are on my prayer list.
By Ami on 09.14.10 1:46 pm | Permalink
So…this post…made me cry…AGAIN! I’m only a crybaby because I love you so much, you know that right? And I refuse to let any shoes drop on you! You are in a no-dropping-shoes zone. I forbid it!
Love you babe, and I’ll see you soon.
By Val on 09.14.10 1:46 pm | Permalink
Casey,
Big hugs and big grats to to you! I’m so happy for you! Your honesty and bravery about your struggles have helped me in ways you may never know. I hope you find peace and then overwhelming joy over this new life you’ve created. You deserve all the good things and happiness in the world.
By Mama Bub on 09.14.10 1:50 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @mamabub
This is the most happy I’ve been in a very, very long time. Also, that’s the best picture of a pregnancy test I think I’ve ever seen.
By Amy in StL on 09.14.10 1:56 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @Amy_in_StL
OMG, I just gasped out loud in the office and have no way to describe to my cubemates why. I’m very happy for you and I’m also nervous and worried and scared for you too – but it’ll be okay. Cuz I know you can do this…. wow.
By Jen on 09.14.10 2:07 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @black_eyedsusan
Congratulations a million times over! Hands down, the best news I’ve read on the internet today.
By Katie on 09.14.10 2:08 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @Kdswisher
OHMYGOSH! How can I be so excited about a pregnancy announcement for a woman I’ve never met? My heart literally jumped into my throat and tears stung my eyes when I read this. PRAISE GOD! This is an amazing miracle, and I know I’m not alone in being thankful and excited for you!
By Rick on 09.14.10 2:10 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @rbucich
heCK yeaH! YoU GO! MaDe my DAy!
By Heidi on 09.14.10 2:19 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @slightlycosmo
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Holy cow! What great news! I’m so excited for you!
I know the fear and deluge… Coming from one who has been to hell and back, it will be okay, no matter what. You will ALL be okay.
But we need the deets! How far along? When are you due? How did you tell Cody? Does Addy know?
By Arkie Mama on 09.14.10 2:27 pm | Permalink
I am so, so happy for you!!! Reading this announcement made my day!
By kdiddy on 09.14.10 2:27 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @kdiddy
Wow! congratulations!
By Shauna on 09.14.10 2:28 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @ChocolateShauna
Congratulations, Casey. I realize this has brought on a deluge of mixed emotions for you, but I know you will be fine and I know God is with you always. ALWAYS.
Hugs to you, Cody and Addie. You will always be special to me.
By jane on 09.14.10 2:29 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @janemaynard
oh you sweet woman….feel what you feel…and know how HAPPY I am for you!
By Nicole on 09.14.10 2:30 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @nicostuff
Congratulations! That is so wonderful
By mel on 09.14.10 2:57 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @agirlnamedmel
absolutely thrilled for you! hugs, mama.
By Anne-Marie on 09.14.10 3:02 pm | Permalink
CONGRATULATIONS! I’m so happy for you!
By crookedeyebrow on 09.14.10 3:15 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @crookedeyebrow
OH there are no words for the amount of excitement I have for you!
I remeber telling you that it CAN happen after I gor pregnant with Eden after 7 years of trying.
Oh Casey, I am over the moon, happy as **** for you all and I look forward to weekly belly shots!
congrats momma!
By Lisa in TX on 09.14.10 3:32 pm | Permalink
Squeeee!!!!! I’m so happy for y’all!
It OK to feel weird about this. It’s a huge deal and takes some sorting out. I’m sure you’re not the only one who’s felt this way, either. Just keep being you and we’ll keep loving you.
By Sara on 09.14.10 3:41 pm | Permalink
Wow.zers! Many congrats!
By Mr. Blonde on 09.14.10 3:54 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @mrsblonde1
CONGRATS, Casey! Have you stopped and wondered yet…could it be twins? Not that that ever happens.
By Cassie on 09.14.10 3:57 pm | Permalink
SO very happy for you! And THANK YOU for sharing your good news. It gives me hope, tells me not to toss in the towel because you are proof that miracles ARE possible and they still happen every single day. Congratulations. Your little Addie will be the perfect age to be the best big sister and jr mama that a little one could ever have.
By Angela on 09.14.10 4:14 pm | Permalink
Sooooo excited for you! When I finally gave in to it not happening of course it did! Hate when people say that too! Congrats!
By Issa on 09.14.10 4:21 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @Issascrazyworld
I am so unbelievabley thrilled for you. I wish I could come hug you right now. This news? It made my day. Truly. I heard it first thing this morning and I though, how amazing, how miraculous. Just plain awesome.
Huge hugs to you my friend. Much love to you all.
ps. My oldest and youngest are almost seven years apart. They absolutely adore each other.
By Laura on 09.14.10 4:27 pm | Permalink
CONGRATULATIONS! I am so happy for you and I don’t even know you.
By Kelsey on 09.14.10 4:35 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @depukel
so so SO happy for you! this just made my day!
By S on 09.14.10 4:43 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @sandithompphoto
Soooo happy for you!!! Tears running down my cheeks. Happy tears!!!
By Amber @ AmourJoie on 09.14.10 4:48 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @AmourJoie
I know I’ve already DM’ed you and @’d you and all that to the point where if you were me, I’d totally be like “okay, even *we’re* not that happy, shut up already..” but seriously.
I know you’re scared to be happy about this. It’s okay. It’s 100% okay.
I’ve been reading your blog since The Treadmill, and that was a really freaking long time ago, I think. I’ve relied on your archives for faith inspiration when I lost everything that mattered in my personal life, and you were there. I still have a “Moosh” folder in my email with your notes of love and encouragement and spiritual guidance.
I’ve read through all of your heartbreaking posts about wanting so badly to give Addie a sibling, to have another little squishy bundle of love to kiss on and and another heart to mold into the example of your own loving heart, and the second I read this, I couldn’t stop the tears for a good ten minutes or so.
Even though we don’t know each other in “real life”, I am just as excited and thrilled for you and your family as I would be if my best friend in the world had called me to tell me the same news. I just wanted to tell you that, and to tell you that I will be praying for you and the Moosh clan for the next 8, 9, however many months.
So very much love and prayers,
Amber
By Mrs. Flinger on 09.14.10 4:51 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @mrsflinger
HOLYMOLY!!! YEY!!! So happy for you. Thinking hard about little bean in there. XOXO
By Corey on 09.14.10 5:14 pm | Permalink
Crying tears of joy for you, girl.
By Rachael on 09.14.10 5:19 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @rachael1013
Gah! Congratulations, I am so, so happy for you. It took 2 years to get pregnant with our first, and when I finally conceived via our 4th IUI, I had already given up in my heart. I was not even excited when I took the 7 pregnancy tests. I didn’t even tell my Mom until after I’d had 2 blood tests at the doctor. So, I can imagine the scary, the feelings you’re having. I believe they’ll pass and soon you’ll be in the happy place. Big hugs to you, and a happy, healthy 9 months!
By Fay on 09.14.10 5:32 pm | Permalink
Congratulations. I cannot describe how happy I am for you. It’s cheesy but after having discovered your blog almost a year ago, I feel as though I know you and am ecstatic for you.
By gemini-girl on 09.14.10 5:44 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @geminigirlblog
By gemini-girl on 09.14.10 5:45 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @geminigirlblog
fyi: boy.
By Amanda on 09.14.10 6:08 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @babyafoster
WOW! Congrats!!
By Cristina on 09.14.10 6:08 pm | Permalink
Oh Happy Happy Day! Coming from someone who is still on the secondary infertility ride and is usually quite the bitter hag about these things I could not be happier for you. Yipppeeee!
By Sarah, Goon Squad Sarah on 09.14.10 6:27 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @goonsquadsarah
Congratulations!
By Summer on 09.14.10 6:30 pm | Permalink
Congrats! I actually just started reading you. Like today. But I wanted to say thank you. I swear reading that touched me like nothing else has. Every single word hit home. Thank you. For understanding. Knowing. Relating. And for the hope. I wish you all the best. You so deserve it.
By NotAMeanGirl on 09.14.10 6:46 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @KSKaraokeKween
I’m so happy for you guys!
Jealous as hell but happy!!!! (It does give me hope though!)
By Karin on 09.14.10 6:51 pm | Permalink
I’m really really happy for you and Cody! And you’re right that a lot of us are choking – just on different things. Hang in there!
By Shelley on 09.14.10 6:58 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @ShhhEllie
I am thrilled beyond thrilled! Seriously as soon as I saw the top of the picture the tears were welling. Sooooo happy for you, Cody and Addie too. My boys are 6 years apart. It really does offer awesome opportunities. Take care of yourself
By HeidiLee on 09.14.10 7:40 pm | Permalink
WOOT! So happy for all of you! We are all here for you if you need us….yippee skippee!
By Teresa on 09.14.10 7:44 pm | Permalink
Two of my favorite bloggers (you and Heather @ Babyslime) both announced their pregnancies today! Heather has chronicled her infertility issues as well as her love for photography. Kismet!
Congratulations and best wishes on a healthy, non-emetic pregnancy!
By Lauren on 09.14.10 7:58 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @cookinlikecrazy
OMG yay for you!
hugs and love and positivity and more love!
I live in Indy, too, ya know! lol
By Jess on 09.14.10 8:22 pm | Permalink
Casey I have been following your blog for years and AM BEYOND THRILLED!!!!! I feel like I just peed on that stick. CONFREAKINGRATS!!!!!!!!
By Bridget on 09.14.10 8:34 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @iveyleaguemama
This secret has been KILLING me!
And then I have a migraine and miss the big announcement? Pppphtt. Oh, well…
I am so, so happy for y’all Casey! The excitement will catch you soon…and you’ll be able to dream and think ahead. You’ll get there. Finally at 19 weeks, I’m beginning to breath a little easier(figuratively, not literally…holy cow! this kid is taking up a lot of room!)
By lala on 09.14.10 8:47 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @lilygrass
CASEY!!! I’m so excited for you and your family. Congratulations!!!
By Jessie on 09.14.10 8:55 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @jess_cuh
I’m terrible about not commenting on blogs, but this certainly merits a comment. Congratulations to you and your wonderful family, and I wish you all the best best best!
By Hillary (Mrs. Einstein) on 09.14.10 9:20 pm | Permalink
Congratulations!!!
By ccr in MA on 09.14.10 9:24 pm | Permalink
Wow, congratulations! So happy for you.
By Melissa on 09.14.10 9:38 pm | Permalink
Congratulations! I just recently started reading your blog! I am so happy for you!
By Shana on 09.14.10 9:40 pm | Permalink
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! So excited for you and Cody!
By Brittany on 09.14.10 9:56 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @BrittCTaylor
Congratulations
By Kim on 09.14.10 9:59 pm | Permalink
So excited for you! Congratulations!
By Anna Grace on 09.14.10 10:00 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @StanderNovel
Squeeeeeee!
I wanted to comment on your FB, but it wouldn’t let me. I kinda get how you feel because I miscarried in March and it seems like I know a million women who have, also, so I’m kinda scared to get pregnant again.
But still I say to you…
Squeeeeeee!
By Kait on 09.14.10 10:02 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @KCHK
I am so so deeply happy for you, Cody and The Moosh. Hopefully soon your fear will subside and you can just be joyful.
It’s funny because the emotions are so similar with being paper pregnant. Fears of something going wrong, fears of losing the pregnancy, fears of all the unknowns – those are the same regardless of how you get your child after being infertile.
Here’s to hoping for nothing but the best.
By emily on 09.14.10 10:04 pm | Permalink
SO fantastic! Awesome!!
By The Bossy Yankee on 09.14.10 10:22 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @kategiovinco
I am so excited for you guys! Hang in there! This is wonderful news! YAY!
By April G. on 09.14.10 10:22 pm | Permalink
Aaaaaahhh!!! I’m so happy for you Casey! Congratulations!
(I feel like a dork for being so happy for a complete stranger, but still…So happy for you!)
By Lucretia Pruitt on 09.14.10 10:27 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @lucretiapruitt
I am just plain happy for you – because it’s not so complicated from my seat at the table. But I do get complicated emotions & pregnancy going hand-in-hand… So I’ll just be happy in advance for the you who will be thrilled in the future.
You will rock this, my friend… much love to you.
By Candace on 09.14.10 11:00 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @Jondace
Ride on 368 comments (your current count as of now) worth of joy and happiness for you until you can be there for yourself. If you are looking for a good therapist…I’m seeing one now through LDS Family Services and I am IN LOVE with her. I would love to refer you if you are interested.
By Rose jorgensen on 09.14.10 11:46 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @Downeastmama
Eat mac n cheese from Noodles & Co. (don’t know if there’s one in Indiana). Miss you!!
By LAB on 09.15.10 12:14 am | Permalink
Another lurker comes out with prayers for a healthy pregnancy. I understand the fear. Please know that many MANY will be lifting you up in prayer.
And we are dancing with joy for you and your family.
By Tatiana on 09.15.10 12:44 am | Permalink
Twitter: @rizado
For someone I’ve never met, I’m super over the moon happy for you. Congrats!!
By Rabbi's Wife on 09.15.10 2:07 am | Permalink
Twitter: @rabbisiwfe
I’m waaaaay late to the party, but my heart skipped a beat just then.
I know it brings a new host of problems, but when you make such CUTE kiddos, it makes sense to have a few of them.
By Debbie in Memphis on 09.15.10 4:11 am | Permalink
Twitter: @erindraven
I am thrilled for you all!! Is it crazy to get all teary eyed with joy for someone you only know from stories and pictures shared online? I’m crazy happy for you. I will be sending you good wishes and prayers every day!!
By moosh in indy. » moosh two point oh… on 09.15.10 7:02 am | Permalink
[...] with all the comments yesterday (!!) this one in particular struck me (thank you Sarah)…I need to remember nothing has gone wrong. I need to quit [...]
By Jennifer on 09.15.10 8:09 am | Permalink
You know, after I left blogland a couple of years ago I stopped reading most blogs, but have always had a few I keep up with – yours being one of them. I am so glad I did because I have read so many of your struggles to get pregnant and to see that picture just made my day for you. Congratulations, take care of yourself, and I’m sure as soon as you start getting big and uncomfortable you’ll be in a great enough place to complain like the rest of us – until then, hang in there.
By Shannonannon on 09.15.10 10:27 am | Permalink
Twitter: @shannonannon
This makes me so exceedingly happy! Wear your blinders baby. They block out things you really don’t want or need to worry about. Including the size of your caboose (sorry that one was a blinder I needed). NOTHING IS WRONG and I am so happy for you!
By Laura on 09.15.10 11:03 am | Permalink
Another longtime lurker coming out to say congratulations!
By Lisa on 09.15.10 12:43 pm | Permalink
I am SO very happy for you!!!!
I haven’t dealt with infertility, but I have dealt with losses. I became pregnant after my first loss and was a mess. Scared. Panic attacks. Is that ANYthing similiar to your emotions? I am asking because I don’t want to say something stupid.
By Lisa on 09.15.10 12:44 pm | Permalink
Oh yeah, how are you feeling physically?
By Gretchen on 09.15.10 12:52 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @Gretchen_
I am sitting at my desk crying…tears of utter joy. I have never met you – have conversed only a couple times via email about the crippling topic of depression – your blog has helped me to smile on days I didn’t think it possible. You don’t know me. I know the part of you that you generously share with the world through your beautiful words and stunning photographs. And yet, I sit here, crying tears of amazing joy for you and your beautiful family. My faith in the universe stronger than it was 10 minutes ago – because of you. Congratulations Casey. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Much love (from a complete stranger…as weird as that may be). XOXOXO Thank you for sharing so much of you with us – and making my world a little more sunshine-y.
By Isabel on 09.15.10 1:39 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @Holaisabel
I admit that every time I click on your site I hope to see a “I’m pregnant” post. And even though I knew you’d accepted that you might not ever have another baby…I still expected to see that post.
And today I did.
Congrats to you and your entire family.
By melissa on 09.15.10 2:24 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @rockdrool
i am SO THRILLED for you and your family. mazel tov!!!
By Therese on 09.15.10 2:36 pm | Permalink
Congratulations!
By Kristen on 09.15.10 3:56 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @ChronicleOdutch
I have followed your blog for a while (always a ‘cyber stalker, never a commenter’ type of fan) but this post made me so excited and giddy for you that I had to say Congratulations!
You’re lovely and I wish the very very best for you and the fam!
By Becky on 09.15.10 4:20 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @msbatman
I don’t know if I’ve ever commented here before, but wanted to say Congratulations to you and your family. You have a whole lot of friends all over the place sending happy thoughts your way.
By Rachel on 09.15.10 8:14 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @sthrnfairytale
<3
By Jade on 09.15.10 9:02 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @jadeplus4
So very exciting. So very happy for you.
I hope you have a uneventful pregnancy and are able to get past fears and worries.
So many crazy emotions, all at once, all in different directions.
I am pregnant too, due in March. It is a surprise! pregnancy, our fifth baby and brought many different emotions this time.
Thinking many wonderful thoughts for you and looking forward to going though this “with” you.
By Christy on 09.15.10 11:47 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @morethanmommy
Congrats, gal!
By Melanie @ Mel, A Dramatic Mommy on 09.16.10 3:57 am | Permalink
Twitter: @MelanieMedia
Oh my! I’m so happy for you! I wanted this for you. I remember our conversation in front of Coldstone. I could feel how sad you were. I hope the happy comes for you soon. Addie is going to be such a great big sister!
By Colleen on 09.16.10 11:30 am | Permalink
Twitter: @AMadisonMom
I just cannot stop thinking of how very truly happy I am for you. Just full to the brim with happy.
By Jamie on 09.16.10 12:37 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @blondemomblog
Congrats congrats congrats!! So happy for all of you!!! Sending you lots of love and peace of mind.
xoxo
By Frema on 09.16.10 1:00 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @mrsfrema
Congratulations, Casey! That is wonderful news. So happy for you and your family!
By Mary on 09.16.10 1:20 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @mbrownmoore
I am SO happy for you! If I were closer, I’d give you a gigantic hug and probably jump up and down. Of course, that might be awkward if you were somewhere, like, oh walking around the mall and I snuck up behind you.
That’s fantastic news. xoxo
By Jenny on 09.16.10 9:06 pm | Permalink
Judging by the number of responses, he or she is already one loved-so-much-it’s-rotten baby.
Congratulations to you and your growing family. This is the very best kind of news!
I wish you the best of luck with therapy. Take good care of yourself. Your body and your budding baby need you.
By Susan A on 09.17.10 12:08 pm | Permalink
I AM SOOOOO EXCITED FOR YOU!! I love your blog and your pictures! One of these days, I will purchase that one with the funnel cakes…yummm, love them funnel cakes. CONGRATS!!
By Sara Sophia on 09.18.10 12:44 am | Permalink
Twitter: @sarasophia
HOW THE HELL DID I MISS THIS??
I never curse.
AND?
THAT IS THE EXTENT OF MY UTTER HAPPINESS.
I heart you Casey.
–Sara Sophia
By Caroline on 09.18.10 2:13 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @MorningsideMom
WHOA…what planet have been living on that I missed this…HOLY BABY IN YOUR BELLY!!!!!! I am so so thrilled Casey. I have been hoping and hoping for you. Expect many hugs when I see you next week! XO
By Della on 09.18.10 6:38 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @adelas
crying
By Angie on 09.18.10 11:52 pm | Permalink
Holy cow…I step away from your blog and bam you go and get yourself preggers…lol! As the 400th comment, just want to echo, probably, the same sentiments already said. I prayed for you, dear Casey. Oh how I am happy for you. The prayers will continue.
By Stephanie on 09.19.10 12:56 am | Permalink
Twitter: @stephsday
Congrats to you and your family. I bet your older daughter is going to love having a baby to help take care of.
Thanks for talking about this so candidly. It’s good for mothers to know they are not alone.
By RookieMom Heather on 09.20.10 12:47 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @rookieheather
Wow. Congrats and good luck and all that!
By RookieMom Whitney on 09.20.10 12:58 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @rookiewhitney
SO HAPPY FOR YOU!
By One Hungry Mama on 09.20.10 1:02 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @OneHungryMama
i’m just seeing this. thanks for sharing. not sure how much more there is to say as commenter 403
, but i had to just let you know that i’m happy for you–even though i can understand why it’s not so cut and dry for you (yet)–and i’m, as always, humbled and inspired by your bravery to just put it out there.
and, for what it’s worth, my second pregnancy happened under very different circumstances, but came at a difficult time, with a lot of very mixed emotions and was just, well, fraught. i was scared and mixed up the entire 9 mos. my little boy is now almost a year old and (of course) i cannot imagine life without him. the difficult time is not over and it’s often very hard, dealing with it while taking care of TWO kids, but it’s all irrelevant. it just couldn’t be any other way. i wouldn’t have it.
By Alis on 09.21.10 1:04 am | Permalink
This post deserves mega comments! So here’s another one for the pot.
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Live on that excitement for awhile.
By JJ on 09.23.10 11:16 am | Permalink
I am soo excited for you!!
You have given the rest of us who can’t get pregnant HOPE.
Thank you for giving me hope and courage to keep trying to make my dream of becoming a mom true!
By Bethany on 09.23.10 2:36 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @springraine
Oh my gosh, I go away on vacation and look what I come back to!!!!!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!! I am SO, SO thrilled for you
YAY!!!!
By DURGA on 09.23.10 8:58 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @durgao
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!
I’M MUCH MORE HAPPIER FOR YOUR PREGNANCY THAN MY OWN! I DONNO …IT’S JUST AWESOME!!!!!!~!!!
GOOOOO U!!!
By Elaine on 09.27.10 11:50 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @elainea
Congratulations! I’m sure it’s a roller coaster of emotions. But I KNOW it’s such a blessing. So happy for you…
By Irrational Dad on 09.30.10 11:59 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @joegearhart
Every post of yours that I read, that spoke of infertility, and the toll it was taking on your emotions and your relationships… I WANTED to leave a comment saying that it will happen when the time is right. I wanted to, but I knew it broke the rules of etiquette.
I can’t explain how happy I am for you. I’m so glad that I stumbled across your site, from a comment on someone else’s blog.
Congratulations, Casey. Truly, happy doesn’t explain it, but I’m happy for you.
By Al_Pal on 10.01.10 2:51 am | Permalink
Twitter: @Al_Pal
Ahhh, congrats! Best Wishes.
By Helene on 10.01.10 10:37 pm | Permalink
Twitter: @SweetTartelette
As one who can’t, I rejoice for those who do.
I am sending you all the good vibes in the world
Congratulations guys!
By Carly on 10.12.10 5:00 pm | Permalink
Pregnancy is an emotional journey no matter how it is ridden. To echo what so many others have said, you are completely deserving of one of the greatest blessings.
I hope someday, well if I can say that anymore, to be a mom of more children. I am trying to hold onto my hope that I can at least be a mother to my oldest daughter that is almost 10. Having been in a custody case since June of 2008, I feel like someone is trying to take away my oxygen supply when I think of the fact that he is trying to prove me unstable and claim that I don’t deserve her, that he should have her 100% of the time. I don’t know if I could go on without her, my heart might just stop on its own.
I have been pregnant twice, raised 1 for 10 yrs was left by her dad when 8 weeks pregnant and placed my 2nd daughter for adoption when her birth father left me at 8 weeks pregnant.
Your concerns are valid and very real. I hope that you are able to work through them and enjoy this journey to its fullest.
Thank you for sharing so much of your innermost self so that the rest of us out here can realize that we are not alone, that you can realize that you are not alone.