moosh in indy.

April 28, 2012

After a marvelous evening filled with friends, cupcakes and dancing…I feel more like myself and less like a slug.

I’m looking forward to thirty even though I still feel like I’m only 22.

It’s tradition around here that you wonderful people come out of hiding and make me a comment cake, telling me about the wonderful things going on in your life. Even if it’s just a nap or a really good sandwich last week. But if I may be a little selfish this year, since it’s kind of a big year, tell me something good, and then if you’ve been around for awhile (or just a little while), could you also tell me what your favorite post or photo of mine is?

I mean, I know what I like…but I’ve always been curious what you like, I’ve just been too bashful to ask.

I look forward to reading your lovely, it’s been a highlight of my birthday for the last five years.

No related posts.

Comments off.

Happy birthday beautiful, beautiful friend! Love you to death and I hope you have the most amazing birthday ever!

I have so many favourite posts of yours. Whether it’s chubby baby photos, or telling your daughter how it’s cool to be a nerd (cause we nerd girls are awesome), or your posts about mental illness and infertility struggles that help me realise I am not alone, and that good days happen. Because they do!

Honestly right now one of my favourite posts of yours is the one where you said that you had come to a place of acceptance in your struggle with infertility. I love that post for two reasons. Because of the amazing surprise you got with Vivi (and the hope still left for me) but also because I believe I’m coming to a similar place of acceptance, and it’s good to know that it’s okay to have this place – because others have been there. YOU were there. And most days, you’re kinda one of my heroes chica.

<3 to you on your b-day.

(thus ends Jia's rambling)

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:06 pm

@Untypically Jia, I’m so happy to be in the sisterhood of redheads with you.

Happy day to you! Hope it is amazing!

The most wonderfulest thing is my little life right now is my shiny new baby. Who happens to be waking up right now, but it’s sort of okay because when you wait six years for a baby you feel okay about seeing her in the middle of the night!

Favorite post or photo of yours… your photos of your friend’s birth (I’m totally blanking on her name right now) were some of my most favorite and inspired me to have the courage to ask my mom and sisters to come to the birth of my baby and take photos. They’re not photographers so they’re not professional quality photos, but they represent one of the most precious days of my life. I don’t think I ever would have done that without seeing your photos. So, thanks! Not to mention – they’re really nice photos!

** I had to go back and find them. Here they are: http://mooshinindy.com/2009/11/20/dear-baby-gage/

This post is another favorite, too, because of the last line… http://mooshinindy.com/2012/03/20/i-promise-to-do-good/

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:08 pm

@Heidi, Oh my, I am so happy that you got your long awaited baby. It’s marvelous how quickly all the pain we went through melts away when we have them in our arms.

Happy birthday!!! I’ve been a reader since you were pregnant with Vivi, but suck at commenting.
One of the most wonderful things going on in my life right now is watching my 5 year old daughter suddenly flourish with TONS of new knowledge. I mean I know kids are constantly learning new things and exploring but she has really suddenly taken off in the past 3 months with reading, comprehension and forming her own definte opinions on life. It’s like when she was an infant again and just watching her be in amazment of herself is soo wonderful. It’s hard to explain
You have so many wonderful pictures but some of my favorites are Vivi standing in front of the window in all her chubby leg cuteness, Emily’s birth photos (Stunning!) and Addie reading to Vivi being an awesome big sister.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:09 pm

@Krystal, Five years old is magic, they become little citizens and best friends.

HBD, gorgeous creature!
Good things – was chosen to be an editor of a writing challenge blog, my son’s superhero 3rd bday party and Cadbury mini eggs.
I have many favorite posts. How to Be Depressed, Parts 1 and 2.
Oh ye, of little milk supply
You are stronger than anything broken inside of you
Brite wisdom for the littles
Hey you…with the happy face…what gives?
C’mon, you make magic in your posts and I love em all. Glad you got your happy pants dance on for your day.
xoxo

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:10 pm

@Joules, Have you had the fudge Cadbury eggs? I’m a fan of the original, but those fudge ones man, YUM.

Joules Reply:
May 1st, 2012 at 4:19 pm

@Casey, What are you doing to me? I am currently detoxing from the mini eggs and now I’m trolling the internet for the fudge eggs. Send insulin now.

Happy birthday! I hope you have a wonderful year. I found your blog from babble’s baby’s first year and came to really enjoy your writing. This is my first time commenting, but I’ve been reading for quite awhile now. I also have a two daughters that are close in age to yours so I can relate to a lot of what you share. I tend to love all of your posts, so I don’t know if I can name a favorite! And I love all of the beautiful photos you share. I hope that I can pick up a few of your tips. I’ve been practicing.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:10 pm

@cheyenna, Aww, hi and thanks for making the jump from babble…it can be a little terrifying over there.

Happy Birthday! Anything you write about infertility really touches my heart and hits close to home.
On a happy note my son got into the charter school we were hoping for, so hooray!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:11 pm

@Cristina, Congratulations to you and your son!

Happy 30th birthday my dear friend of almost nine years! All your posts are my favorite. Love the pictures as well. They are all well-written, and I see a depiction behind every one of your photos.

After all…there is only one Casey in this world who is unique in her own!

Keep writing for those who need to hear you

I love you!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:11 pm

@Rose, Thank you my dear sweet Rose.

You DO look like you are 22! And can I say all your photos are my favorite?

Steph

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:11 pm

@Adventures In Babywearing, Yes. Yes you can, because you’re my favorite.

Adventures In Babywearing Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:11 am

@Casey, Yay!

Happy Birthday! Sorry it’s raining, but hope you have an awesome day anyway. I’m planning my son’s ninth birthday and looking forward to summer vacations. One of my favorite posts is the one about Addie coming home from Kindergarten in a police car, because really, how often does that happen – unique and laugh out loud funny. There is absolute beauty in all of your photos, but I’d say the ones I enjoy most are of Addie and Vivi together and your cute little Wink, and of course I treasure all of the moments you’ve captured of my family.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:12 pm

@Wendy, It was raining? I didn’t notice. Your boys are sunshine.

I loved turning 30. I felt like I could finally just be me instead of trying to be what I thought others thought I should be. (Something like that.) I felt so much more comfortable in my own skin and quit caring about what people might think. It was so refreshing!

I am counting down the weeks on this baby–6 more to go! After my miscarriage, last year, I followed all of your pregnancy posts obsessively because I needed to know that *somebody’s* pregnancy was coming out right. Even with all the barfing and the splotchy face, I knew that if your baby came out OK, then I would be OK, too. Eventually.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:13 pm

@Lisa in TX, SIX WEEKS TO BABY! You will be okay, and I hope the first year is just as magical for you as it was for me. Seriously, best year ever.

Happy birthday, Casey! I’m three years behind you and so jealous of how youthful and wonderful you look. Happiness looks great on you, and I’m so glad to see it.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:13 pm

@Erin, Oh thank you, drink lots of water, wash your face, use sunscreen…so far so good!

Happy Birthday! I have been a very long time reader, but have never commented before. I can’t even remember how I found your blog, but I read it daily. Your writing, your photography, your children, I love them all.

I will be turning 30 in a few months too, and I’m starting to feel okay about it. I just recently made some HUGE life changes and I’m excited for my future.

My absolute favorite post of yours is from a few years ago. Eu falo Brazilian

You made me want to go try it and I did.

Happy Birthday Casey!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:14 pm

@Jackie in Ohio, Dude, the Brazilian. Heaven bless the Brazilian. I have made a lot of happy husbands, boyfriends and women through that post.

I didn’t realize I was older than you (by about 4.5 months). I don’t mean that in a bad way, I promise.

Honestly, I love all the pictures you take. I love the ones of Vivi. I have to show my husband and even he oohs and ahhs, and sometimes he wouldn’t even do it for our kids, so that’s saying something.

I love your unique perspective in your shots. You capture moments and shots that some wouldn’t think of taking and I love it.

You’re truly an inspiration to me, both with how you deal with your depression, the pictures you take, and the words you write.

Sarah @ TM2TS Reply:
April 28th, 2012 at 9:35 am

@Sarah @ TM2TS, And I can’t believe I forgot to say this

“HAPPY BIRTHDAY, CASEY!”

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:15 pm

@Sarah @ TM2TS, Thank you Sarah, if you ever stop showing up in my Flickr stream I’ll know to send out the hounds.

Happy birthday! My news this year is I have a new job that I LOVE. I am happier hen I have been is a long time. My little girl graduates high school in June and heads to college in August and I am bursting with pride. I hope you have an amazing birthday and a phenomenal year.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:16 pm

@Erin, Oh, a new job that you like can change EVERYTHING. Hopefully your daughter isn’t going too far, girls need their moms.

Happy Birthday!! May this year be the best one yet .

Happy in my life. Sometimes it’s hard to find happy in the crazy. BUT I’m engaged to my high school sweetheart. It’s been seven years and about damn time, haha! So wedding planning is in full swing. Both my fiance and I are about to graduate (me from grad school, him from undergrad) and embark on our new lives together finding jobs, getting married, having kids (sooner rather than later, says I) so as stressful as all of that is, I do need to remember they are all good and wonderful things.

My favorite post. Gah, I love so many…it’s hard to pick. I think “breaking early to be strong later”..this one: http://mooshinindy.com/2011/10/11/breaking-early-to-be-strong-later/. Hit home for me, more than anything else. It was like you were talking about me. I can’t express to you how strong and brave you are for putting yourself and your emotions out there on the internet. It has helped so many people get through so much. Thank you. And happy birthday friend. (I can consider you a friend right? Not in a creepy way, just in a hey I’ve been there too kind of way.)

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:18 pm

@Brit, I had forgotten about that post! But yes, that one was dedicated to a very dear friend and every other mom in that heart wrenching situation.
Thank you, and yes. We’re totally friends, someday we’ll seal it with cupcakes.)

Happiest Birthday Casey!!

I don’t know that I can choose a favorite. They are *all* favorites. Each picture, each post pokes at a soft spot in my heart that reminds me I’m not alone when sometimes my brain tells me I am.

My husband asked me a few seconds ago what I was doing. I told him…Wishing a friend in Indy “Happy Birthday”. He said you don’t have a friend in Indy..I said, Oh, but I do. That’s the great thing about the internet. We’ve never met but your posts and pictures let me know that I’m never alone. xoxo

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:20 pm

@Shelley, You tell your husband to get over here and let me kick him in the shin.
The Internet and our collective experiences make us all friends and sisters.

Happy birthday Casey!

We’re in the midst of preparing for some big changes over here and while some days are overwhelming I have noticed a pattern. Just as I am starting to get discouraged I’ll get either a blessing that shocks me out of my frustrations or just a positive confirmation that I need to keep plugging along. It is that reminder that we have a reason for doing all this work even when we don’t really know what it is. I’m grateful to be able to recognize many small blessings each day.

I love the honest posts and that you keep it real. So the last few months as you’ve been so happy have been spectacular but the months when you were sick and preg were good too and the depression ones as well. Basically I’m in awe that you’re able to write through so many of the emotions. Total respect for ya woman! Have a great day.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:24 pm

@Angela, Oh, thank you. Looks like you’re learning about grace and the blessings of little things in the face of hard stuff, noticing them makes all the difference.

Angela Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:38 pm

Check out Elder Bednar’s talk from the Ensign in March 2012. It was written just for me. And this kid in my ward. Oh and a friend says before it came out she attended a talk by him that was double the content of that ensign article and it was for her too. So I bet it will help you as well. So. Good.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:52 pm

@Angela, Bednar is a close second to Ucthdorf these days.

Happy birthday!

Lucas slept through the night the last TWO nights. It’s amazing. I’m a new person.

Happy to have met you in your 30th year.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:24 pm

@Katie, It’s ridiculous to realize how much a solid night of sleep can change your entire outlook on life.

Happy 30th birthday Casey! I’ve been reading your blog for probably 5 years! My life is good right now because I have an awesome husband, a beutiful little girl, and now we are trying for another one too! So exciting!
I’ve loved your blog, but I have to say, I think my favorite post was when you announced you were pregnant with Vivi. I was so happy for you!
I hope you have a great 30th! Here’s to another amazing decade!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:26 pm

@Audie, Oh thank you, and good luck on the babymaking!

Happy Birthday you wonderful woman!
My immediate thought was there is no better post than the orgasm on the treadmill.
But honestly, my favorite post is the one that made me fall in love with you. Blogher 08 you inspired me to come out of my shell and shine. I will always be grateful to you for that.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:27 pm

@Adrienne, Meeting you in that hallway shortly before the police took us away, still one of the best moments of any BlogHer ever.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

My favorite posts of yours are the ones (which is most of them, actually) that show your ridiculous, beautiful love for your girls. You are such an amazing and honest writer.

Good things for me this week: I’m going to have a nephew in September. !

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:27 pm

@Jen, DUDE WE SO NEED TO MEET EACH OTHER. You’re on my bucket blogger list. For reals.

Happy Birthday, Casey! Here’s to hoping your day, month, year are blessed and bright. I love all of your writing, but especially love your posts about your family. You can tell that they are the center of your world and bring you so much joy! Praise God for that.

In our life? Hmmmm…we homeschool and our school year is almost done! Summer, anyone?

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:28 pm

@Amanda, NO SCHOOL!!! (The kid in me can totally get behind that.)

I love the Internet and Twitter. Through them (I don’t even remember how) I found you. I love your blog. Your tweets make me laugh. Your photos make me pick up my camera more. Your writing through your struggles helps me understand myself a little better.

My favorite post or photo? I have to go with the photos but I can’t pick one. I love taking pictures. No ambitions of becoming a pro, but longing to learn how to take better pics. Looking at your pics inspires me to take more pics and learn more about photography.

What’s going on with me? I’m happy. That doesn’t seem like much to some people, but I know that you and your readers would understand. I’m happy with life. I’ve forged ahead in the world of being 30+ and it’s great. Dive in.

So dearest Casey, I wish you a very Happy Birthday!! I pray that this year is full of *HAPPY* for you!!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:29 pm

@Heather, Happy is everything. Everything hinges on happy. I totally understand the happiness that happy can bring. xo

Happy birthday Casey!

I’m so thankful for my son…he’ll be 9 months old tomorrow. I waited a long time for him…had him the day before I turned 43… He is the light of my life!

My favorite post… It’s a tie…the one when you revealed Addies name and the one you announced you were pregnant with Vivi. My heart was so happy for you after your long struggle!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:30 pm

@Catherine, Oh! You got your baby! That makes me so happy. 9 months is fun, all if it is fun, but 9 months, very fun.

Happy birthday to my most favorite person I’m not related to.

Is it vain of me to say my favorite posts have been the ones you wrote about me? The birth post of Paul, which is right in front of the one about Gage. And the same goes for photo.

The photos that you’ve taken of my kids throughout the years are gifts and treasures I’ll keep with me until my dying days.

You are an amazing friend, both to people “irl” and ones you touch through the keyboard.

Enjoy this day, 30 (and beyond) is pretty awesome.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:31 pm

@designhermomma, Not vain at all, in fact I’d probably be offended if you didn’t pick those ones.
I’m so glad the Internet gave me you.

dear casey,
here is my piece of the comment birthday cake.

first? HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 30′s are the best. People say it, but it’s true. It’s like you finally have permission to just be yourself. Although you have done a really great job of that already. You are an inspiration to me as a writer, a mother, and a fighter.

I can’t even tell you what my favorite of anything is, although the pics you took for Emily’s family when they found out they were having Paul are among my favorite. You have a special talent for capturing not just posed, happy pictures, but real, raw PEOPLE. The tears of joy, the look of wonder, the REAL emotions.

You have a pantload of talent my friend.

My friend.

I am so lucky to call you that.

Happiest of days to you.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:31 pm

@Katie, Oh thank you. I’ve started to think of myself as more of a storyteller than a photographer so it makes me so happy that you see that.
xo

My happiness to share is a piano solo of “Love at Home” that I’m practicing for a Mother’s Day special number at church. Feeds my soul, music does.

The favorite post of yours that first came to mind was the write up you did of everything you had learned from nursing Vivi. Certainly helped me a ton!! I wouldn’t have known about the Lact-Aid, domperidone or the book “Making More Milk” without your post!

Happy birthday, Casey!!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:32 pm

@Candace, That was an epic post, if it helped one person (which apparently it did!) it was all worth it.
Good luck with your piano playing!

Golly gee, getting out of debt has made this year pretty banner for us.

Favorite posts are honestly too many to number but always the gut wrenching honesty as well as the ridiculous pee your pants silly ones. Love the youtube bed commercial you made. and of course your beautiful photos. Probably those from Gage’s birth remain my favs. And anything with balloons. or that one I took of a troll looking at your boobs.

happy birthday dear. 30 is fantastic, trust me.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:33 pm

@Cherie, I think you’d have a hard time topping last April!
I adore you.

Happy Birthday! I can’t believe how far you’ve come! (weird coming from a perfect stranger huh?)

I started reading your blog a few months ago shortly after finding out our countless attempts at TTC were finally successful and this blog is one of the best places I come from warm fuzzies of inspiration, refreshing YOUR page every day (both on here and babble) gives me new ideas of what amazing things I have to look forward to!

I’ve used the online time machine to go back to your original blog and watch its design evolve, watch you evolve and your posts evolve; its just SO MUCH FUN! Thanks for all the rays of sunshine and the refreshingly positive bits of parenthood (yes you make lice treatments sound like happy family moments!) Happy Birthday and here’s to many more years of posts about your family moments!

PS – and the stellar photography doesn’t hurt either

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:34 pm

@Jaime, Not at all, I’ve grown and changed in so many ways over the last however many years and I’m so happy that it’s evident and perhaps inspiring others to keep going, thank you Jaime.
xo

Happy Birthday!

I love your blog and you are my favorite writer on Babble. I love that Cody writes now too. It is fun to hear how much he loves his family.

http://cdn.babble.com/dadding/files/2012/04/vivi.jpg is one of my favorite pictures. And your latest picture of Wink rubbing the wall. I love how the light plays off his fur.

I am enjoying every new day with my 15 month old. She’s starting to talk and her personality is really coming out. I feel she is similar to Vivi, who also seems full of joy.

Enjoy your 30th! Mine was great and every year since has been even better.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:35 pm

@Alisa, Can you get over Cody’s lawyerly writing? We couldn’t be more different in our styles.
And OH THAT PICTURE. I love that picture too, one of my favorites for sure.
I feel bonded that we both have sunshine joy babies, they’re the best.

Happy birthday! It looks like you’re starting your 30s off well. My wonderful thing is laughing with my kids. It just never gets old. My favorite post isn’t a post in it’s entirety but the one where you shared, “Everything turns out OK in the end. If it’s not OK, this is not the end.” I think about that often. However, I first found your blog through a link to your *ahem* treadmill post so that one stands out pretty clearly. I’m sure you’ll make 30 your best year yet!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:36 pm

@Katie @ Heart Gone Walking, My best friend left me that quote YEARS ago and it has made such a difference to use it as my mantra.
And yes! The treadmill! WordPress deleted it at some point and I have NO IDEA how to get it back.

I’m an absolute lurker and have been for a few years now. I’ve been vicariously following your challenging downs and your beautiful ups. My favorite posts are those where you find your inner strength but also recognize the support from those around you. I feel like I know your girls and Cody because of how you describe them as well as the fantastic images you share.

There are so many favorite photos it would be difficult for me to pick one. I love how you hone in on the essence of the subject, capturing energy, light and the sense of timelessness.

Something good right now from me – it’s been a tough week, personally – but I’m going to stay positive and relax my way through it.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:37 pm

@Karla, I like your lurky tendencies.
I’m sending you all sorts of good jujus that this week gets better for you, I’ll be sobbing in a corner come Friday because that baby WILL BE ONE.
xo

Happy birthday to you! I love any photo of Vivi’s rolls….such a baby love

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:38 pm

@Hannah, I took more today, just for the baby roll lovers!

Hannah Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:46 pm

@Casey, That makes me oh so happy All of your words and your photos are a light in my day when I’m fighting that good fight against all those ucky feelings that you write so beautifully about

Happy birthday! I love your photography, especially (of course) those chubby baby legs. To die for! Keep up the good work, especially what you do with light.

Right now I’m happy that after being laid off 3 months ago, I have a 2nd phone interview next week. It’s a step!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:39 pm

@ccr in MA, GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR INTERVIEW!
I took more baby leg photos today just for the proclaimed chub lovers.

Happy Birthday. I, too, will be turning 30 this year and can I say I actually am looking forward to it?

Anyway, the fun/wonderful thing going on in my life right now is planning a big bash to celebrate a few family milestones. Lots of out of town, and out of country, family are making plans to attend and I can’t wait to see them all.

I have been lurking since you were pregnant with Vivi and I was drawn to your blog becaus of your honesty and your photography. I love every photo you post and you inspire me to learn more about this fancy DSLR I’ve been trying to master for a few years now. Thank you.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:40 pm

@Hannah, Family parties are so much fun. 30 is pretty sweet and keep on keeping on with that camera, it’s totally worth all the gross shots to get the ones you love.

Happy birthday, Casey! I hope you enjoy your day.

Best news in my world: this week I found a different med combo to keep me going and smiling. I’m thankful the last serious bout of depression only lasted a few weeks.

My favorite posts are the ones about depression. I, too, struggle with difficult depression. Reading your posts gives me strength and encouragement – that I’ll make it through, or that I’m not the only one. I especially love the youtube video in the post “this is who you are” and “you are not.” The post by Cody about your depression was great, too; I don’t have a significant other, and I know everyone is different, but it was helpful to see depression through an outsider’s eyes – I always wonder what those around me think.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:41 pm

@kellye, Oh! I love it when people are able to find a med combo that lets them feel human and enjoy life, I so totally get how important that is.
Thanks for the birthday wishes!

Happy Birthday! What a great day for a birthday (its mine too ) Hope you have a wonderful day. My favorite posts are the ones where you show your girls interacting together. Nothing quite like a sister Happy Birthday to you again!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:42 pm

@CJ, It’s kind of the best day for a birthday ever right? Hope yours was just as wonderful!

Biggest happy 3-0 to you! I’m there in less than a year and am glad to hear it’s a happy place
In a time of great stress in my house, my gorgeous little Asher is keeping me sane as her amazing personality shines out more and more everyday. She’s about 2 minutes away from walking and running everywhere. Hence, my favourite posts of yours are the ones about your girls, especially the ones about Vivi with Addie. I’m getting clucky again, and seeing their beautiful relationship in the beautiful photos that you take melts my heart everytime <3

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:43 pm

@Andrea, Sisters are a wonderful thing, and 30 is turning out to be pretty good.

Happy Birthday my friend.

Wishing a day filled with love and happiness that you deserve.

May you absorb all the love around you…hold it within you…savor it…capture it…and save it for those times when the darkness seems overwhelming. If and when THAT day comes, reach inside and wrap your arms around that love from others…remembering how wonderful you are…how perfectly created…and smile.

xoxoxo

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:44 pm

@lisa, you forgot “wear my earrings daily and feel prettier doing it”
Because it’s totally true.

My favorite posts by you are always where you are real with us, no matter what the topic.

The most wonderful part of my life right now is that I am taking my med-surg nursing final on Monday and then no more med-surg class EVER again.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:45 pm

@Becca, I’m outrageously happy for you and I don’t even know what kind of nursing final that is but it sounds hard and stressful and IT WILL ALL BE OVER SOON!

COMMENT CAKE TIME!! I love it! My happy thing is that I am a middle school teacher and we have 18 more days of school till summer break. AWWW YEAH. My favorite post? I have too many favorite posts to list all but one of the top 10 is your pregnancy announcement with Vivi. I love the part about ” Not out of the woods yet, but taking your hand and bringing you in the woods with me”. What a perfect description of a valuable friendship. Happy birthday, friend-I-Haven’t-Met-Yet!!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:46 pm

@Melissa, You’ve been around for a lot of them!
Bless you for being a middle school teacher. BLESS YOU. Those kids are trouble. (Or at least I was.)

I have been reading about 3 years I think. I cannot think of 1 favorite post but perhaps Vivi’s crazy hair post?

As for something good I have not yet hacked up a lung and with the amount I am coughing right now that is very good. Ha!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:47 pm

@kim q, Hacking coughs are the worst, they make you find muscles in your body you never knew you had.
Thanks for the birthday wishes!

Happy Birthday to you!
My favorite post is definitely “you are not.” Although, any of your photography posts would be a close second. Your passion is so evident, and the way you explain / teach / show – I get it, and I learn from it.
I’m not a mom [yet], but I know that your girls are so lucky to have you as their mom! I love reading the posts about them, and picking up tips for the future. (:
There are so many posts that I could mention, really. You inspire me to be a better person, and to fight through the darkness.
I hope all your good comes back to you, tenfold.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:48 pm

@Brittany, Oh my heavens, you are wonderful, thank you for this. xo

Happy Birthday!

My favorite post from you is the one about infertility affecting friendships. Holy smokes, you hit it right on the head. Good, good post.

And something good going on in my life? The sun is shining, the weather is warming, and my sweet daughter is finally starting to string together sentences. We have communication! It’s brilliant.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:48 pm

@Shannon, I wrote that one the DAY BEFORE I found out I was pregnant, how’s that for irony?
Here’s to life getting a lot more talkative for you!

Happy birthday Casey!

My favorite posts of yours are the brutally honest ones of your struggles with depression- the ones that aren’t popular issues but that are real, the ones so many of us nod and say, “me too” but are too scared to know where to go other than into a deep dark hole.

Favorite pictures: Oh baby pictures! Chubby little knees and fingers and elbows….you get the idea…all those cute baby parts I want to virtually kiss.

Something good in my world: We have a puppy, a precious puppy who smothers me in kisses and love. After losing our 10 year old dog to leukemia 2 months ago, and being someone without kids, having this puppy is my reason for getting out of bed in the morning- and she knows it.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:49 pm

@Chris, I can only imagine that puppies heal broken hearts the same way Vivi healed mine.
(I also want a puppy picture. Stat.)

Chris Reply:
May 1st, 2012 at 12:19 am

@Casey, So sweet to reply Casey. And a picture will be in your inbox. Not beautiful like your pictures, but I’m taking about a million of them, because a baby of any kind motivates me to take pictures.And yes, puppies heal broken hearts too, it’s all that unconditional baby love– they’re just furry babies, and I’m a sucker for a baby of any species. love is love.

Happy birthday!

I finished my first half marathon today! So that’s my happy news.

I love any pictures you do with balloons – so fun. I love your funny posts, because they make me laugh. Mostly though I think my favorite posts were the one where you told us Addie’s name and the picture you posted when you were headed to the hospital to have Vivi.

You should come through Louisville sometime soon so I can meet you.

Happy happy birthday!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:53 pm

@Kim, You finished a half marathon and you can still form coherent thoughts? CONGRATULATIONS!
We’re planning a trip to Louisville soon!

Happy Birthday, my friend! I’m glad I stumbled on your writing a few years ago. You are a spectacular person. Whenever you lose sight of that, I want to remind you over and over.
My favorite happy from the last year was the first real vacation Hadley and I took. North Carolina and the ocean really soothe my soul.
Naming a favorite is like saying which parent, child, or pet is the favorite. It’s impossible. The one that came to mind, though, was the one you wrote when you were traveling and heard the person in the next room crying.
I’m glad you had a wonderful day.
xoxo.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:54 pm

@Mary, I’m so happy you trusted me to take your photos. NOW LET’S DO IT AGAIN!

Today I started my training for the 3Day Breast Cancer walk I’ll do in Chicago this summer. That’s my lovely.

Your lovely (for me) are the photos of your girls together. I have that in my house but I never see it the way your photos show it. The bond, the admiration, the profound love… I wish so often I could capture it. It’s a summer hopeful to-do!

Jamie Reply:
April 28th, 2012 at 10:39 pm

@Jamie, Oh AND Happy 30 – I loved 30 and even the couple of years that have come after it!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:54 pm

@Jamie, Thank you! I totally stage the photos and bribe them with candy to make them look like they like each other. (I kid, a little bit.) Good luck with your big walk!

Happy Birthday!
I’ve been reading for a couple of years – you’re one of the “stranger” blogs that I actually have kept reading because I love what and how you write.
I can’t pick a favourite…I enjoy ALL of your photos. (and posts.)
Thanks for being as honest as you can be. Makes us all feel the way we feel is ok@

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 9:59 pm

@Kristin S, I’m glad you put “stranger” in quotes. Heh.
xoxo

Happy, Happy Birthday! What a beautiful picture to bring in your 30′s! My best friend and I both turn 30 in the next two weeks and I hope to have that much enthusiasm.
My lovely is that right now both of my sweet children are passed out on my sides (only 2 hours after bedtime) after a beautiful, play-filled day.
I enjoy every picture and post you write and am so thankful that I clicked on your link from another blog I follow (Late Enough). Your post, The One About a Broken Heart, was so beautifully written and while I desperately wish I didn’t know that sound as well, it brought comfort to read your words and feel less alone.
I hope 30 is your best yet!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:00 pm

@Sarah King, In full disclosure, it was so windy I couldn’t feel my fingers in the photo because the strings were digging in so hard.
*phew*
I feel better admitting that.
Thank you for the birthday wishes and happy birthday to you in May!

oh dear casey. Happy, HAPPY birthday to you.

I adore all of your depression posts and definitely the photo posts. My absolute favorite is probably this is who you are, the video post.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:00 pm

@Bethany, Thank you darling, you’re adorable.

Happy big 3-0!!! I just hit the big 3-5 and it’s pretty swell. My all-time favorite post of yours is “I Am,” when you announced your pregnancy. My favorite pictures of yours typically involve Addie’s curls and Vivi’s fat rolls. Glad your birthday was good–hope your year is amazing!!!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:01 pm

@Jen L., More chubby photos on the way! Thank you and I hope 35 is just as wonderful for you!

Happy, happy birthday!

My happy this week is my wonderful mother who supports me when I’m in hard places and isn’t afraid to tell me what I *need* to hear (versus what I want to hear, ha).
I so appreciate all your posts where you are so open about your depression. It is amazing to read some one else’s words and feel less alone.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:01 pm

@Sarah, Aww, I like your mom.
xoxo

Happy Birthday! Turning 30 is fantastic. And it gives you more street cred with the older crowd, lol.

I’m incredibly happy right now because we’ve made a decision for our family to move out of the country, and it’s given me the focus I need to finally get as healthy as possible, both physically and financially. I love having projects! Also, my daughter has started reading chapter books on her own, and my book loving heart is about to explode with pride.

I can’t remember a favorite post of yours (the fibromyalgia has put my brain in a fog!), but yours is definitely one of my most favorite blogs. Your talent, honesty, struggles and ultimate triumphs are an inspiration.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:02 pm

@Laural Out Loud, Addie brought home a HUGE chapter book and I hugged her hard and long.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

I’ve been reading since at least 2008. I know that because I remember laughing at your all-demin fashion in that one post. (Sorry. It was funny.)

My favorite posts are the ones the mushy ones about chubby babies, wonderful daughters and your relationship with your gentleman friend. (I know, that’s mostly all of them.)

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:03 pm

@Nichole, Ah yes, the denim tuxedo. I know how to be amazing, that’s for sure. And I sure do like my gentlemen friend.

Happy Birthday! I’m not sure exactly how I found your blog. I’m thinking it may have been through Heather Spohr’s blog. Honestly, I don’t have 1 specific favorite blog post of yours. I love anything that comes from your heart…..posts about your girls, about your husband, about your triumphs and your struggles. As for my favorite photos of yours…my favorites always include balloons. How appropriate that today’s photo includes beautiful, brightly colored balloons. I remember a photo of your daughter’s bedroom door showered in balloons on her bday morning and I LOVED your post and photos announcing that your 2nd baby was a girl…..again BALLOONS! So, there you have it. I love all of your photos but the ones with balloons definitely rock my world!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:04 pm

@Carol Fisher, I so love balloons, it’s totally true. I’m considering investing in a giant, permanent helium tank.
Thanks for the birthday wishes.

My happy, growing, healthy (except for the current cold) boys make me happy. Your beautiful girls make me happy. That you are in a healthy, strong place in your life makes me happy.

I love all your posts- living vicariously through your blogging adventures, the honest hard ones, the light funny ones (erm, wax much?) and the beautiful photos. I love the photos of your kids the most.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:05 pm

@Barb @ getupandplay, I like you. I like that you got waxed with me and I like your boys, all 3 of them. xo

Happy Birthday!
Love the picture of Emily meeting Gage, and all the pictures of you and Addy with your beautiful smiles.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:05 pm

@jessica, Thank you, and that moment with Emily, crazy wonderful.

Happy birthday!! Love your blog even though I don’t comment often. A while back I wrote you an email about my own struggle with infertility and how you give me hope. You wrote me the kindest response that brought me to tears and I often read it to remind myself of your words. Anyhow I wanted to share that I’m pregnant finally. Naturally. The month before I was supposed to start my treatment. You bring joy and hope to so many people and I hope from the bottom of my heart you have the greatest birthday ever!!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:06 pm

@Jen P, I JUST GOT GOOSEBUMPS! I’m so happy for you. SO SO HAPPY. Best layer of the comment cake yet.
Congratulations sweet friend.

Happy Birthday!! Wishing you a 30th year filled with many joys and just the right amount of mischief.

Here’s my happy: I’m 22 weeks prego! Hello, FAT and HAPPY!! I have a 2 year old who calls her brother Baby Peanut (yep – her name, not mine) and thanks God for him in her prayers. I’m going to be a stay at home mommy starting in 4 weeks. Life? It’s pretty awesome!!!

I’ve loved reading your blog for the last year and a half or so. Thanks, thanks, thanks for sharing so much of yourself with us. I’m so happy to see your happy when I log on.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:07 pm

@Melissa, AHH! So much good in your life! Thank you for sharing and good luck with all the new changes!

Oh yeah, and as an (absolutely horrible-aka-) aspiring photographer, I always appreciate anything that includes the words “HOW TO.” Your photos? They kick butt.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:08 pm

@Melissa, Heh. Thank you…we’ll have to have lunch sometime so I can do how-to’s in person. I’m so much better at them.

I love the balloon photo and that you’re on instagram now. It looks like you had a really great birthday which I am so happy about.

Today was a great day. We went hiking at the state park and everyone had a great time and it was finally a beautiful day. We went to close to lunch so we left after an hour but went to a local diner and had amazing burgers and fries with chocolate shakes. Then I took a nap. Pretty great Sunday

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:09 pm

@Marta, Burger, fries and chocolate shake. YES PLEASE.
And yes, finally on Instagram (because it finally came out for Android.)
I may be addicted.

Marta Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:12 pm

@Casey, If you’re ever in Minnesota we will go to Leo’s Malt Shop in Stillwater. Its amazing.

Also, I had an iphone for years before finally getting instagram like 2 months ago.

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:27 pm

@Marta, SOLD!

Happy Birthday my sweet friend. I am so very lucky to have met you and to have you in my life.

Hoping 30 is good to you and that the coming year is your best one yet!!

XOXO

(I love so many of your pictures. All of them. Especially the ones of your girls!!)

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:09 pm

@AmazingGreis, You’re AHHHMAZING.

Happy Birthday to you Casey! My partner and I are trying to have a baby! We will find out in about 1 week if this is the month!!!!! My favorite post is where you talk about Addie loving your squashy parts – I actually copied and pasted it onto a note on my iPhone and I look at if whenever I feel down about my body. My kids love my “soft” aka stretch mark filled tummy from having 9 and 10 pound babies!!!!! I am squashy for a very good reason and I will be forever thankful for you reminding me. Ohh I also love the post where you wrote Addie’s kindergarten teacher a letter. Yep, lobed that one too.

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:10 pm

@Jennifer, OOH…good luck on making it through this next week without being in a giant bundle of nerves! xo

Happy birthday!! Hope your thirties are incredible!

I love a particular quality that connects ALL your posts and photos to Who You Are, and that quality is your integrity.

What I’m looking forward to is the birth of my third son… less than 9 weeks to go!

Casey Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 10:10 pm

@Melissa, Thank you so much, and NINE WEEKS! Let the countdown begin! I hope you’re feeling wonderful!

I have to say I am not having happy times at the moment, but your posts give me hope!

My favorite post is still from the apartment days! It is when you got your Dyson! I laughed and laughed! I miss u!!

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:28 pm

@Michele Turney, Oh man. I still love to Dyson to this very day.
Hope things look up for you soon darling.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
In honor of your tradition: I came out of my fog of depression last week.
And this week Im coming to terms with my body Its mine, and im taking care of it. if its meant to be a size 2 or 12- thats what it will lead itself to

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:29 pm

@Sarah W., That’s what I love to years!

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:29 pm

@Sarah W., YEARS? Hear. HEAR.

Happy birthday, Casey. You are good people. I left a comment on a gut wrenching infertility post. You took the time to personally email me back, and you made my very hard day better with your words. You even took the time to visit my little family blog, which I really appreciated.

My favorite post was the one where you announced you were pregnant with V. I already knew, based on comments in your email. But I felt huge joy for you, and saw that sometimes light really does shine down that dark tunnel.

My favorite funny post is the one about Addie and the police cruiser. I love the Indy 500 and fair pictures, and the picture of A reading to baby V.

Have a wonderful, heart happy, full year, and many more.

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:30 pm

@Jenny, Oh I’m always happy to hear that I did something right and that you’re doing better.
xo

Jenny Reply:
May 1st, 2012 at 10:58 pm

@Casey, You do a lot of things right. Give yourself credit, and a pat on the back from me. .

Alex’s broken bone shifted due to the large forearm muscle pulling on the bone. It’s common with this break. We have to go to the children’s hospital tomorrow. They will put him under and then realign the bone and recast his arm. If possible, they will do the procedure without surgery. If not, they will pin the bones. All good thoughts and prayers for the boy are appreciated. If you can spare a prayer please send it his way.

I’ll send a prayer and good vibes your way that dark clouds over your world pass soon and the sun shines brighter in Indy.

Casey Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 8:40 pm

@Jenny, How’s his arm? Update please!

Happy Belated Birthday! The most wonderful thing in my life right now is my amazing boyfriend. After being in a very damaging and hurtful marriage, it is so amazing to be truly and completely in love with someone, especially since it is the first person I ever loved to begin with. We met when we were 13 and parted ways later as teenagers. We reconnected last fall when he was in Iraq, and I was healing from the changes in my life. It’s just been a whirlwind of amazing. He is truly wonderful and makes me contagiously happy. He, like me, has a daughter. Our daughters even get along fabulously. Everything just seems so meant to be, and it is something I’ve never felt before . It’s just lovely.

Also, I’ve enjoyed so many of your posts and photos. I don’t think that I can pick one. However, I do know that so many of them have spoken to me on various levels. Last week when I studied treating depression in school, I thought of you. But it was such a good thought! I thought of how you seem to swim through the low points and come out with a smile on your face, and how I admire you for doing that. I’ve seen so many patients in my rotations that never make it across the pond to find their smile again. And if they do, they could never candidly describe it the way you have here. What you do is truly inspiring, Casey. I hope you know that.

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:31 pm

@Amanda, Love is wonderful, I’m so happy you’ve found it. You’ve been around for a long time and it means a lot to me.

Something wonderful: I’m graduating from college in 2 weeks!! It’s taken 7 years, 4 schools, 5 countries and more tears and growth than I like to remember to get me here – but I’m finally graduating!

What I like – your candid descriptions of life with children and depression. I expect to be there one day (with the children, that is – i already have the depression), and appreciate the honesty.

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:32 pm

@Megan N., 2 WEEKS! I still remember the day Cody graduated from law school. It was SUCH a good day. So much relief.
Best wishes in all of it.

Happy birthday! I’ve actually been reading your blog for years, but I’ve probably only commented once or twice. You have so many followers I figure my comment would just be one of many many many. Anyway- I wanted to add something good that has happened to me because I’ve been incredibly blessed lately. My good friend and I are raising money for a charity that supports orphanages in Ecuador. We planned a garage sale and asked the ladies in our ward if they could contribute their unwanted items to us. And boy did they! We raised over $1300 from our garage sale. On top of that, my neighbor heard that I was raising money and she and her daughter came to my door and handed me $100, even though they are saving up for the daughter to take her own trip to Ethiopia with her church and hadn’t reached their goal yet! The day of the sale (yesterday) my husband lost my car keys and then I lost the spare set and he’s headed out of town this evening. I told a lady in my ward what happened and today after church she and her husband came to my home and said they brought me a car. They have 2 and only need to use one. I was going to be in a real pinch with no car and I was so stressed about it and they just showed up and saved me from having to beg rides to school for my kids and having to bike to my own classes at the college I go to across town. Life is good. God is good. And the people who have blessed my life are wonderful.
Now for my favorite photos- I really can’t name any particular one. I love all your photos. I love to see your chubby-wubby baby girl, and I love your birthday balloon pics, but I especially love the photos of you and how real they are. Sometimes they are wonderful and smiley and at flattering angles, and sometimes you’re sad or have broken blood vessels all over your face. I love the pictures that express real life, however it is in that moment. That is what I relate to and that (along with your writing of course) is why I’ve been following your blog for so long.
Happy birthday, Casey. Keep counting your blessings. It reminds me to count mine.

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:35 pm

@Sheyenne, Thank you so much, amazing news on your garage sale and how blessed those kids will be down in Ecuador because of you and your ward.
Kiss that couple in your church, what wonderful people.

Happy Birthday! I turned 30 almost 2 years ago and I can honestly say that my 30′s have been amazing! I handle trouble with so much more grace, have more patience, and am learning to truly enjoy the little stuff in life. Hope your 30′s are fabulous!

I especially love reading your posts on infertility. We struggled with it for 6 years and finally had our first child before our 8th wedding anniversary. Even though I am now a blessed momma of 2, I don’t ever want to forget how hard those years were…I want to be able to help others through their struggles.
I also LOVE the posts about Addie. I have a curly headed little one and have sought your advice via email and loved that you were so quick to help me out! Thank you!

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:37 pm

@Amber C., Sisterhood of the moms of curly hair unite. I’m pretty excited that the 30′s seem to be so popular with everyone who’s already been there.

Happy birthday, Casey. I hope we’re friends for the next thirty years too.

As dark a time as it was, the period when you were going through your depression at the worst stages yielded some of the rawest posts you’ve written, and they’ll always resonate with me.

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:37 pm

@Avitable, Insert joke here. Ha ha ha. We both laugh, so funny.
Thanks for sticking by me big guy.

I love you. I hope your birthday was magical. I only wish I could have spent it with you.

I am so thankful that I finally learned (at 30) that I can choose to be happy. I never knew it was a choice and I am feeling so much peace in my life and my heart by this one simple discovery.

I can’t say I have a favorite post. I just love reading about your life and hearing from you, so I will cheat and say all of them. That is what best friends do right?

xoxo

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:38 pm

@Kim, You’re my sunshine, to the moon and back.

Happy, happy birthday!!!

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:39 pm

@meekasmommy, Thank you!

A belated happy birthday to you!

I loved your post on how to care for curly hair. I have incredibly straight hair and I love seeing sides of people I’ll never experience.

A good thing that happened today was that I vacuumed everywhere, it makes the whole house feel fresher and it is fairly easy.

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:39 pm

@Amy, I read your comment earlier, and proceeded to vacuum my first floor.
Thanks for that, yo.

Happy birthday! 30 is great! I found your blog by googling “how to manage my kid’s curly hair” and found your post on Alphamom. Great advice, thank you! My oldest daughter has curly hair and she has been walking around the past year looking like no one cares for her! I haven’t been reading long, but I already love your posts. Your pictures are beautiful, especially of your Vivi, who is the same age as my younger daughter. I’ll be reading as long as you’re writing!

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:40 pm

@Rochelle, Ah! Thanks google! To be honest I still have a hard time keeping Addie looking well cared for, I think only moms of curly headed ladies could understand.

I turned 30 over 2 years ago – and 30 was a great year. I know it will hold the same magic for you.

I don’t comment often [ever?], but I wanted to thank you for tackling all that you do with grace, humor and truthfulness. More than once one of your posts has made me feel a little less alone.
As for something good happening – my 13 month old girl has just started walking and goodness it is funny to watch her toddle around.

Happy Belated Birthday Casey. May 30 be as good to you as it was for me.

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:42 pm

@Leah B, Thank you, Vivi is so close to walking, I can’t believe it. You and I will be commiserating over bumped baby noggins soon enough.

I hope you had a wonderful birthday! I started reading you on babble Kids Scoop and really enjoy your posts (both places)! I think one of the reasons I love your posts is because I have my own curly headed little 7 year old! It’s fun to hear your Addie stories! Often, it sounds like things that go on in my own house!
Oh, and I love your photography!
Ps- I love that Cody is blogging now! It’s neat to see it from a Dad’s perspective!

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:43 pm

@Amanda, Curly headed kids are a force to be reckoned with. Thanks for making the big leap from Babble!

I wasn’t on the internet much on your birthday (how did I survive the day?!), but I’m pretty sure you’ll accept Belated Birthday wishes, just the same.

I’m so glad the internet allowed me to meet you – you are such a unique, sweet person. I wish you nothing but the best this coming year.

You have too many wonderful pictures to pick a favorite, but some of my recent favorites include Paul’s birth story pictures.

You are a gem. Keep shining!

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:44 pm

@punkinmama, I’m so happy you finally got your baby. SO HAPPY.

Happy, Happy Birthday from a semi-stalker (I do comment on occasion)! I can’t give you just one post because I LOVE them all…from your curly-haired big girl to your chubby, munchable baby girl to your sweet hubby to your one-eyed cat! Love every bit of it. Love how you share your heart with us, make us laugh and sometimes cry. You bring me to send prayers to Heaven for you and your sweet little family from time to time, too! Love checking out your awesome photos and getting ideas when I take pics of my own sweet kids. You are just a special person and I am priviledged to have been reading your blog for years. Can’t even remember how I originally came across it, but sure am glad I did! I hope your life continues to fill up with much more of the wonderful…you deserve to be HAPPY! Is it possible to love someone you’ve never physically met? I’d say so ’cause I think you’re the bomb diggity! Hugs, love and all that stuff!

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:45 pm

@Beth, Thank you so so much, and you’re the first person to mention the Wink which makes you super special.

Happy birthday (albeit a few days late) !!!

I loved your post titled “You Are Not.” Is it bad I picked one in your side bar? Sometimes, when I’m having a bad day and particularly struggling, I come back and read it again. It makes me feel better in my corner of the world, when my depression feels like it is sucking me into a deep hole that I can’t claw my manicured nails out of, no matter how hard I try. It speaks to me and makes me feel so much less alone.

Good things going on for me right now? Vacation is 20 days away. That’s less than three weeks! I think I can, I think I can, I think I can…

Casey Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 9:46 pm

@Whit, VACATION IS 4 MONTHS FOR ME! You are not is a good one that came at a once in a lifetime moment. I like that one, it’s like the post the Internet wrote for me.

Casey, I wish you knew what your writing does for me. Every single post is like it’s written just for me. I’ve been struggling with personal decisions lately regarding my marriage and my faith and my life. Yesterday, in particular, I read your post about your getaway with Cody. The last two paragraphs about loving and accepting your body and then the quote about loving deeply at the end…..I was in tears. Weeping. Sobbing. You said exactly what I needed to hear. You usually do. I don’t know you, you don’t know me. But you’ve done far more for me than I’ll ever be able to tell you. Thank you. You rock. I turned 30 on April 18th. Happy Birthday to us.

Casey Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 8:40 pm

@Liz, Oh Liz, thank you for this. Cody and I had to stick it out through some rough garbage and there’s times that I look at him and am amazed that we ever treated each other so unkindly. If there’s any hope to anything, it’s worth sticking it out until you know for sure.
Best wishes with you darling.
xo

I’m a little late to the game, but also wanted to say happy birthday. I loved turning 30 – so much more comfortable in my own skin and in life than in my twenties. Still haven’t figured out what I think of turning 40 in one short year.

I love all of your photos and post. You’ve helped me understand depression and infertility better. I didn’t struggle (too much) myself, but it reminds me how personal and real it all is.

One post I didn’t see mentioned (but I didn’t read all the comments!) was one where you explained your religion. I’m a very non-religious person (living in Indiana – I know!)but work for a company based in Provo, UT, and I must say I work with the nicest people around. They were all so surprised when I knew they were building a temple here in Indy, as well as some of the other fundamentals of the LDS faith. I wish we lived in a world where we all aimed to understand and respect each others religious views, and that post helped me understand just a little better. I hope it did for others as well.

So happy birthday beautiful lady! I look forward to many more photos and posts from you!

Casey Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 8:38 pm

@Amy, Thank you! Have you ever had to GO to Provo? I don’t much like it there but yes, the people are quite lovely.

I can still remember my mom turning 40, dude, when I’m 40 Addie with be EIGHTEEN. EEP.

Amy Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 9:41 pm

@Casey, I’ll be there Wednesday and Thursday this week actually! I’ve probably gone 4-5 times a year for the last 6 years. Can’t say I’d want to move there, but it’s not a bad place to visit at all. Every time I go I wonder why I live in flat Indiana and don’t live near mountains. One day I’ll move to Denver.

I’m so late but happy birthday. My 30′s have been so good to me – I wish the same for you.

Love all your photos but honestly the one on this post blew me away. What a fantastic shot of you. Also, any photo with Vivi’s baby pudge melts my heart!

Casey Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 8:37 pm

@Kristen @ The Chronicles of Dutch, Thank you! I nearly lost my fingers with how windy it was and how big those balloons were but totally worth it.

Happy birthday! <3

I loved your posts about the HSG because it helped me help my sister.

I love seeing your beautiful face and your beautiful family.

Happy birthday, miss.

Casey Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 8:36 pm

@Sarah, Oh man, I know I’m lucky to have you in my life but your sister is even luckier.

I know this is late, but I wanted the official confirmation: For the second time in my life, your birthday has brought me a positive pregnancy test & *hopefully* our 3rd happy, healthy munchkin.

I love your sick & vomitting preggo posts b/c you are the only person I know who can play the “I threw up SO much” game with me I’m praying that it won’t be the case again this time around, but the Vegas odds are not in my favor!

Casey Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 8:36 pm

@Bellamomma, AHH! Congratulations! Enjoy all that, um, making humans stuff. I love it but man I need a break between it. LONG BREAK.
Best wishes!

Ive been a fan for a year or more and Im pretty sure I found you through BA/Heir to Blair. I dont think I can pick a single post or photo because I heart them all. I feel like were besties even though Im on the West Coast and weve never met & you dont know who I am. You have heart & courage for putting yourself out there and I thank you for that. When I sometimes feel alone or Im blaming myself for my bipolar, its you who makes me feel not alone & that Im still good, well & my fab hubby too! Gotta say my top fav photos are the Addie bonking Vivi in the head with the ball series, vivi with the Scotty dog & your 30th (how fabulously rich in color)! I hope to read your fabulous blog & life for years to come. Happy Birthday!
~LeAnna

Casey Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 8:35 pm

@RsqAnimals, Thank you! And isn’t Beth Anne WONDERFUL?
Take care of the West coast for me and I’ll hold it down here in the Midwest until we can meet someday.

Happy belated birthday. I find leftover birthday cake just as good. So here goes.

I’ve been an avid blog reader for years, and comment only a few times, but the post I remember the most is the one where you accept and come to a place of peace with infertility. I cried and commented, and you even emailed me a response. I cried some more. You’re blessed with the ability to put into words things others cannot. So thank you.

Casey Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 8:34 pm

@Jachel, Man, I can still remember the exact MOMENT I came to peace with all of it. Oh, it felt so good.

I also have been eating birthday cake out of a box all day with a fork. *ehem*

I’m late but just catching up to say happy belated birthday!!

The happiest thing in the world here right now is that sixteen months after seeing his face for the first time, our little boy is finally home!

My favorite post of yours was a billion years ago when you pulled ads on here to make way for more openness and honesty. It felt brave.

Happy birthday Casey!!

Casey Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 8:34 pm

@Kait, Thank you! I’m happy to still be ad free. (well, big nasty ads I don’t control at least.)

Congrats on your little guy! SMOOSH HIM UP FOR ME!

Happy Birthday!!!!

I can’t believe you’re 30.

I love the post from when your blog was all, “I’m 25. She’s 2.5.” and you did a fall fashion shoot with Miss Addie. Made me wondrous of what you could do with a girl.

Casey Reply:
May 6th, 2012 at 8:33 pm

@VDog, And now you have a little girl to parade around as well! Be sure to have my number on speed dial for when she no longer likes the clothes you pick out for her.

Wow, I’m late to this party! Happy 30th! You are only getting more fabulous.

The best thing? I just got my first DSLR, a little Canon T3 and it is making me so happy. I just love having a real camera in my hands.

I’m late to wish you happiness and add a layer to the comment cake. Does that make me the crumbs left over on the plate? I’m good with that. I always lick up the crumbs.

Happy birthday! You are going to rock 30.

My little bit of lovely? Sophie just turned one. I have two healthy and happy little girls. Life is pretty amazing.

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