I’ve paid $6 to park my car for an hour. I’ve paid $6 to get on an airplane faster. I’ve paid $6 for a substandard burrito and I’ve even paid $6 for a bottle of water. As I look around my house there are very few things still around that I paid $6 for, because while $6 may seem like a lot for some things, $6 will rarely buy you quality or permanence.

I have amassed a collection of Post-It notes from Cody, every once in a while he’ll paper the house with them while I’m asleep. They don’t say anything particularly profound, but I keep every last one, and tuck them away where I can hold them, see his handwriting and know that for however many minutes he was thinking about me and what I’d be doing in a day to find his little notes.

Love Notes and Valentines
Cody isn’t quite as sentimental, but for the last four years he has left a Valentine’s card from me hanging on the fridge. Perhaps it’s because he would have felt guilty throwing away a $6 piece of paper or perhaps he agrees it’s the most accurate card in the world. Whatever the reason, the card has stayed on the side of the fridge where we can both see it. Even when things got really hard last Valentine’s, the card stayed. Even as more and more artwork came home from school, the card stayed.

As far as I’m concerned the card isn’t going anywhere and it will be a centerpiece at our 50th wedding anniversary.

He’s spent money on flowers, I’ve spent money on candy, we’ve both spent money on fancy Valentine’s dinners but none of those things can be hung on the fridge or held in your hand three years later. Suddenly six dollars doesn’t seem like so much money, does it?

There is a line at the end of The Fault In Our Stars that reads “While she was not loved widely, she was loved deeply.” I am loved deeply, I always have been but I have always fought back against Cody’s love because I never truly felt as though I deserved it.

I thought I was in love when I met him, I thought I was in love on our wedding day, I even thought I was in love when I gave him this card four years ago—and I was in love, but it was always guarded. For the last several months I have been all in, it’s scary and thrilling and quite possibly the best feeling in the entire world. I know why we made it through last year, and it is because Cody never, ever gave up on me. Not even for a second. He knew that the girl who was so excited to give him a glittery $6 ketchup card was somewhere inside and he fought like hell to get her back.

hallmark ketchup card

With text messages and email being commonplace now, it’s rare that we have simple, tangible, evidence of sentimentality anymore. If all the computers and phones went away, what words would your loved ones have to literally hold on to? My kids aren’t going to have access to my flirty text messages with their dad in 30 years, but they will someday find a box filled with little love notes, cards and sticky notes between their mom and dad. Greeting cards and love letters, as archaic and outdated as they may seem, still have a very important part in our history as humans. Don’t let them die out in your own relationship because $6 seems like too much money for a piece of paper at the time.

How will you #PutYourHeartToPaper this year?

A special thanks to Hallmark for sponsoring this post.


  1. This will be our first Valentine’s Day together. I have told him “Just a card, or a letter, or maybe just a note is really all I need.”
    He thinks it needs to be a big deal, dinner, candles,flowers, grand gestures.
    What he doesn’t know is that having his words, his love in words written by his hand, that I can hold and read and see for years to come, are in fact a very grand gesture.
    Thank you for this. It was perfect.

  2. I have every card you’ve ever sent me.


  3. Every time we purge and clean out the drawers, mostly those in my bedside table, I come across a pile of cards. Some for birthdays, some for Valentine’s Day, some for anniversaries, some just because. The pile grows and sometimes I can’t open my drawer because a card has opened and jammed it. Yet: I will not get rid of those cards. Every once in a while, I pull them out and read them. Having them there, paper, tangible, something I can hold and touch while I read a message that someone took the time to write to me…that means a lot.

  4. heatheribabble says:

    This is all only true if the person takes time to pick one out and write a message, and the recipient reads it and treasures it. Too often I think we’re expected to give/get cards (birthdays, valentines, every. single. holiday. with every gift) that it just becomes something you give with the gift. My fiance gives me a handmade card for Valentines, and he likes making it and I love getting it. It’s probably the only card I treasure/keep, because it means something to both of us. If there’s thought behind the card, and the recipient can tell? Then yes, all you said! But if it’s just an additional purchase, it’s not worth the $6.

  5. It is quite a challenging task to pick the right junkyard.
    Hopefully, 1 of these options of obtaining money for junk autos clicked with you, and you are going to opt
    for 1 of them. If you are interested check out the Sustainability Series here at the Denver
    Classic Car Examiner where we review the sustainability as it relates to collector cars.